2007-01-24 02:43:39 · 35 answers · asked by Rygirl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Basically jus say u want to be friends. Your really not looking for anything right now and that your jus not ready. Its really depending on the way you say this and a lil quick reminder don't give him no hints that you are interested in that way because that can cause serious problems.
2007-01-24 03:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Luvlyestmami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play any games on this matter. If you are not interested, you have to tell him flat out, you are not interested in him in the way he is interested in you. Beyond that, you may also want to tell him that it does not change your feelings as far as friendship go, but also let him know if your interest is not in him now, don't let him get his hopes up that he may be able to persuade you into changing feelings, read if it is not now, and it is not future, make sure he knows that.
Delivery of this information, face to face. Phone, email, letter, or friend all loose something in the translation and delivery. If you want to guarantee no misinterpretations of what you are saying to him, you must do it yourself face to face with him. Give him the reason you are not interested as well. And, that there is no chance....
2007-01-24 04:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by sara_00_0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way for me is to just say, dude it's not going to happen, never, never, ever. Shut him down cold and hard so that there is no misunderstanding the point. If you are nice to some guys they keep trying.
If you want to turn him down gently just say, sorry but I'm not at all attracted to you.
2007-01-24 03:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by octopussy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell the guy. It's the easiest most honest way to let him know you aren't interested.
2007-01-24 02:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by greenlantern1999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy has a crush on you, then there is no easy way. It is a crush, it is called that because it is painful. There is no nice way to brake a heart. So best just do it it. Don't make him feel like a fool, but don't lie to protect his feelings. Just tell him.
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2007-01-24 02:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always thank them first and incicate I do apprecieate their feelings but follow it up with the reason I am not interested. I have been married to my husband for 16 years so I simply hold out my ring hand and say "I am married".
If it was when I was single I would normally say, "I am not looking to get involved with anyone right now, but thank you."
2007-01-24 02:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him or tell him your not interested. If all else fails just tell him you're into girls doesn't work all the time tho alot of them like it but most are intimidated.
2007-01-24 03:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Due to circumstances beyond my control, I can't get involved with anyone right now, but hey, thanks so much for your interest.
You can use your own words, but the end result is no hard feelings and a clear message to back off.
Good Luck!
2007-01-24 02:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Always be direct and to the point-- I always tell them I'm just not attracted and i see them as a friend only!
You don't want to embarrass them but don't wanna leave any hope there either
2007-01-24 02:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually telling him directly and not sugar coating it. Not saying " Hey I like you and want to be your friend but I am not rerally intrested in anything more" usually gives misleading signals. Be blunt and to the point.
2007-01-24 02:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋