My husband has Heart problems and diabities, and on top of that a pace Maker. He also had a little scare with Cancer this year. He is fine now witht eh cancer but with all the other health problems he well lets just say he can get it up but after 1 min. of foreplay it pops off and is gone. I love him and i would never cheat o leave him but my question is what can i do to get over the sexual fustration. He dosn't want to talk about it and he knows i have toys but he acts like everything is normal. He gets his but when it comes to my turn he turns and walks away and is bright red in the face. What do I DO? HELP
2007-01-24 02:11:33 · 8 answers · asked by Ladydew 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
evn though his manhood is not working, there is power in the tongue. have him put it to good use.
you need to demand attention. you have that right as part of the marriage agreement. it's unjust that he is pleasured and you're left out in the cold.
tell him i said "shame on him. a real man doesn't leave his wife out of the o experience."
2007-01-24 06:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lived close by, maybe I could help you, but I guess that wouldn't be right. Too bad, but a lot of men won't face problems like that. Pro long ( a desensitizing lube may help him last longer ) Maybe you and him need to prolong foreplay a little more until the initial excitement diminishes. After the peak, I know that makes meI last longer.
I suppose with the heart problems Viagra, lavitra, or cialis is out of the question. Of course it may be worth the risk.
2007-01-24 02:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by jekin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would print up what you put on here, and put it where he can read it by himself. Later ask him if he had a chance to read it and that you two need to discuss it, w/o being embarrassed.
Holding this in could lead to other issues down the road that he may not want to hear about (such as an affair). This is minor and could be fixed with some open discussion. Open discussion has to be number one in a relationship.
Good Luck
2007-01-24 02:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by jim_17331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he has nothin ashamed of and that you would never be unfaithful to him but you would also like to be sexually satisfied after a sack session also. i mean there is that rule ya kno ladies first (lol)
2007-01-24 03:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with the toys.
If he is bright red faced, you may be trying to kill him.
2007-01-24 02:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some of his medicines cause it. Ask the doctor if he can take the medicine after sex.
2007-01-24 02:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Balsam 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
was it like this prior to his health problems..if so..then he has a premature ejaculation problem ..if not..then take to his doctors..maybe his medication is causing this..
2007-01-24 02:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him stimulate you orally until you are almost ready.
2007-01-24 03:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋