Why do people always have to tell you you've gone red in the face? My boss just said that when talking to me.

Question

She said, "You've gone all red". I hate that. So what if I go red. I'm a shy person, but why do they have to tell you?

My boss is female!

Answer 1

People are insensitive and say what comes into their mind without thinking about it. Its the one comment guanteened to make you go even more red. I used to go red at the slightest thing, even things which I didn't actually find embarrasing. They say that wiggling your toes helps as it diverts the blood away from your face and to your toes! If you are finding it a big problem get to your GP and spill whats been going on, thats what i did (whilst going very red in the face!!) and i now take a tablet a day which has stopped my blushing almost 100%.

Answer 2

She's being the Alpha female. It pleases her to embarrass you. It is within you to overcome this. I'm assuming it's happened frequently. Don't give her the satisfaction, and just let it roll over you. Thicken you skin. She just may of suffered the same thing from another and feels the need to inflict it on someone.

Everything we do to others begets another act. Anger begets anger. Kindness begets kindness. Be the latter.

Answer 3

That means you were "Blushing" for some reason or another.... Yesterday, I went to school, and on my way home I thought a city worker, was following me home, well they came all the way to my parking space, and parked right next to me..... come to find out its my sister,,(taking a break) from her job, well before she leaves, she's like "Who hit you in the nose?" I said "What are you talking about?" She said look in the mirror, your nose looks like its all bruised up!!! So, I looked in the mirror, and to my dismay she was right!!! But, it wasn't a bruise, it was make-up!!!HahaHa!!! So, then after she leaves, I begin to wonder how many people at school saw my nose like this!!!!HaHaHa!!! I must have turned three shades of RED, all by myself at home, just the thought of everyone in my day seeing my face like that!! Hahaha!!! I can laugh at it now, however!!! I think your boss sounds like one of those kinds of people I try to avoid, in life!!! I would just try to find funny things to say to her, to get atttention off of yourself!! And who knows she may become a good friend should you try this approach!!! Smile!!!

Answer 4

I really don't know maybe he was comin on to you, if he was in the playground he'd probably pull your pigtails and run away.
My boss comes onto me by shouting at me and telling me I'm a waster

Answer 5

because people are idiots and they like to point out things that you know are happening but they get some joy of relief from telling you about it, if it is such a problem, speak to your boss about it nd explain that it makes it worse for you.

Answer 6

you are so right!it's like : I know I got red in the face,i can feel it!then your face gets more red when they tell you!

Answer 7

I don't know i get it all the time and i find it makes you even worse. SOme people are just insensititive to others.

Answer 8

try not to be shy so you dont get red and they will no more say to you that!

Answer 9

didn't you know that it can be red (no pun intended) a s sexual message? (what else gets red when you get excited?!) your boss may well be attracted to you and wants you to notice he is responding to your physical change..blushing can be very endearing....!

Answer 10

I don't know; but just say I know i do it all the time , and eventually they stop telling you.