2007-01-24 02:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by bente.nuebe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Address her fears and emotions by being supporting and loving. NEVER tell her she shouldn't feel a certain way, even if it scares you. Her feelings are real. (ie: she expresses suicidal feelings- don't tell her not to feel that way, because you destroy the validity of her feelings. Instead, tell her how sad it would make you and reassure her that this experience is a bad one, but there are many other GOOD ones in her future. Also,There may be other girls in the future that she can help if they've been through the same thing)
Take her to a rape crisis center. They will need to collect evidence and she'll need you there with her because as gentle as they are, it's still scary.
Take her to see a PROFESSIONAL counsellor.
Resist the urge to get revenge. It's hard, but let the courts handle it. Take the situation to the authorities (the rape crisis center can help with all of that) and be as helpful as you can. Encourage your daughter to talk to the police, they may be able to get her statement through a recording taken by a female counsellor if it's easier fo her that way.
2007-01-24 04:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by jhvnmt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My reaction would be murderous. I am not sure I could control my rage. I would definintely pursue it to the fullest extent of the law and make sure that he had to register as a sex offender until he died if he didn't die in prison.
2007-01-24 17:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a teenage daughter so this is what i would do first i would take her to the er so she could be checked over then I would would go to his place i would forcefully remove him then I would get 3to4 of my "biggest" male friends to take turns on him sexually then when they were done i would remove his penis and shove ti so far up his ANSI that it would hang out his left nostril and then I would tie him to the back of our car and drag him to the everglades were i would throw his body to the gaiters. no dna, no body, no weapon, no conviction
2007-01-24 13:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by jjp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not being as civilized as most people, my first reaction would be that I'm going to kill the sonofabitch who hurt my daughter.
2007-01-24 12:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jayna 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops on the guy and take my daughter to the hospital. Be there for my daughter in every way possible.
2007-01-24 10:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by pearl28 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My reactions would be to call the cops, find the kid that did it and...you know..., and to tell the child to be more careful, wise, etc.
2007-01-24 16:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by pgenius3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to a Doctor or Hospital and have your child checked immediately and then contact law enforcement, if the Doctor or Hospital has not done so already.
2007-01-24 11:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ed F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brother-in-laws, who are some good ole backwoods boys, and I would beat the S* out of the guy.
2007-01-24 11:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel sad, hurt, confused. THey I would bring the wrath of an angry mother down apon whoever did it
2007-01-24 11:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would kill who ever hurt my child and make sure they felt every ounce of pain i caused them, then i would take my child to the hospital to make sure they were ok
2007-01-24 21:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋