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I believe that communication is the best resource. Just because the two of you might see things differently that does not mean that you have to argue and disagree constantly. Communicating with the one that you love should be considered in every way. If the two of you would just sit and listen to each other and hear what each others opinions on the subject is about and the both of you begin to put your heads together you guys will realize that even though the two of you have separate opinions on the matter. You both can use your reasons together and be able to come up with one great solution.
Good Luck

2007-01-24 02:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by bigred 4 · 0 0

First off, communication is key!! TALK don't argue. I know sometimes we say hurtful things or spiteful things to get at one another but be the better person and dont fall into that. And if you see thats where the convo is headed just politely say to the person 'I have to go, I'll call you back' and do but when youve cooled off. That way you talk in a better mood and have things to say. What is it that you're arguing about though? Or just things in general? That could be the true nature of your problem. You need to be more specific. Is it a trust issue??

2007-01-24 10:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Andy W 1 · 1 1

Learn to communicate better. Thats one thing in a relationship thats very important is communication. Arguing doesn't solve anything. Talk things over don't argue about it.

2007-01-24 11:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by valerie_lynn82 2 · 1 0

This means that you are not compatible...get out now and cut your losses.

So many people say that you need to work on it, communicate, etc. That's a load of crap...that just means those people have settled for the wrong person. When you are with the right person, the relationship IS NOT WORK!

We work all day at our jobs. Why would you want to come home and have to keep working?

2007-01-24 10:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 1 1

Y'all need to sit down and have a serious talk with eachother. Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. If y'all dont have any communication together, things just go downhill. There are arguements in a relationship, but when they are common about things not worth fighting about, its not healthy. Just sit down together, find out why y'all argue and how to improve things between the both of y'all.

2007-01-24 09:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 1 1

you have to comunicate with each other or the relationship will fail and it is only a period of time. It may be that you fell in love with the best things you saw in the other person without realizing that it was a show put on for your benefit and once the relationship began there was no need for the show to continue.

2007-01-24 10:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 1 1

Ouch... argument hurts in long term relationship. Are you a hot-tempered person? Control, control and control your temper. Arguement take 2 to start off with. If your partner keeps on arguing, walk away and cool off. Learn to realx. Walking off from an argument will cool off the situation. Talk again when both of you are cool off. A cool mind will solved any situations.

2007-01-24 10:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

Learn to communicate and quit sweating the small stuff. Chose your battles wisely!

2007-01-24 10:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1 0

People argue over topics, not the issues.
Get to the heart of the matter & find out what your issues are, & calmly settle them together.

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2007-01-24 09:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 2 1

Try to keep conflicting issues to yourself. Sometimes my boyfriend might think in a different way than me but if it's not a serious issue then just keep your mouth closed and think it in your head. That seems to work with me and mine.

2007-01-24 10:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie P 1 · 0 1

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