okay, so theres this girl and we used to kinda be friends--just a little bit--and anyways we got in a little argument and i really want revenge for the things she said to me. i know its kind of childish but she was really mean =( but the problem is her mom and my mom are friends, so i do anything to her she will go cry to her mommy. so what can i do to her without getting in trouble?
2007-01-24 01:49:01 · 16 answers · asked by cookie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Revenge is for the ignorant.
2007-01-24 01:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that you will probably get replies to your question, full of wonderful ways of getting back at this person. To me that is pathetic.
I am quite sure that Yahoo! Answers was not created so that people could get good ideas on how to deliberately be rotten to others.
Grow up, turn the other cheek, be so busy with your own life that you do not have time to think about this person....that is what you need to hear.
Your need to get back at this person is not a healthy thing, it is immature and wrong.
She must not be a very nice person to have been unkind to you for no reason. Feel sorry for her. Be the best person you can be and forget all about this.
Lady Trinity~
2007-01-24 01:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get on with life and be happy. Hang out with other friends. Throw revenge out of your mind, and ironically enough, that is the best revenge in the world
2007-01-24 02:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by glim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill her with kindness. Be extra nice to her and act as if you don't even remember the things she said to you. If she is at all the kind of person you want to have as a friend, she will have a guilty conscience and end up apologizing to you. If she continues to behave badly, leave her alone and hang out with others but continue to be civil-smile and say hi when you run into each other.
2007-01-24 02:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Country girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fought outdoors of school each and each of the time and under no circumstances were given in hardship (I purely couldn't strive against on college grounds). We went in a alley or someplace that no human being will call the police on us...properly it really is undesirable propose. i do not understand what to allow you to recognize actually i'm a fighter and sick strive against everywhere even in college. i'd purely beat them up and get it over with, rather because you took it to the time-honored and the project under no circumstances become resolved.
2016-10-16 01:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could cry to *your* mom about the things she said. Chances are, the girl will get in trouble for being mean to you, once this makes it through the parental grapevine.
2007-01-24 01:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Bible
Rom 12:17-21
NRSV - 17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil, but take thought for what is noble in the sight of all. 18 If it is possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. 19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave room for the wrath of God; for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20 No, “if your enemies are hungry, feed them; if they are thirsty, give them something to drink; for by doing this you will heap burning coals on their heads.” 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
TEV - 17 If someone has done you wrong, do not repay him with a wrong. Try to do what everyone considers to be good. 18 Do everything possible on your part to live in peace with everybody. 19 Never take revenge, my friends, but instead let God’s anger do it. For the scripture says, “I will take revenge, I will pay back, says the Lord.” 20 Instead, as the scripture says: “If your enemies are hungry, feed them; if they are thirsty, give them a drink; for by doing this you will make them burn with shame.” 21 Do not let evil defeat you; instead, conquer evil with good.
Be Blessed and Rejoice in the Lord!
2007-01-24 02:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Happiness is the best revenge!!! You shouldn't act as if what she does or says bothers you!!
2007-01-24 01:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Stace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slap her hard in the face and say there is a bee there a second ago
2007-01-24 01:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sephiroth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me direct and give me a scenario. i can tell you what to do. let the revenge fit the crime so to speak. and later for your parents. what happens between you and the girl is tween you two. if they are real parents and ADULTS it shouldn't have any impact on their friendship.
2007-01-24 01:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋