this girl hurt me, she cheated on me a few times left me for her ex and she told me she was excorting and i found her on a website, wearing an outfit i just got for her for our 1 year aniversery i know its stupid but i miss her how can i forget her
2007-01-24 01:45:04 · 17 answers · asked by J R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Betrayal hurts alo, but its not the end of the world, Thank your lucky stars that her true colors came out, before you invested more time.in her. You should try to forget this women. Stay busy with your job and friends and any outlet that will keep you busy. You deserve a women that will be true to you and not this skank! time wll ease her memories. Good luck
2007-01-24 02:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u love her? I would never cheat if I had a boyfriend!U said she had an ex... sounds like she has lots of ex'es if shes is has chosen that profession ...Wow she must b a hor or.Why would u want her then? Love is not based on sex . I hope this is not what u have been accustomed too b/c it is not healthy. U r missing so much of true love, not sex...Look at this carefully :if u really miss her why do u want to forget her. Sounds like u may b in love w/her.U might check w/ her & fnd out if its really her on the web. U seem to be decieved but I'll bet its just your imagination....
2007-01-24 02:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she hurt u chances are she would hurt u again if you went back to her, as she just isn't mature enough. when we are in a relationship we do need to know we are their one and only, if were not than it can make for a very bad time of it. just know that her choices caused this. it may take some time to forget her, best to fill your time with something or someone else. be glad she is out of your life, even if u can't see it now, one day u will understand it. got to just accept what she did to u, and know she may just not be a very nice person.
2007-01-24 02:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to occupy time. Rather it is in hobbies or anything else that you can keep your mind on something positive. You need first to respect yourself. If you had some
respect for yourself you wouldn't miss her as much. She cheated on you and had no remorse for it, shes now with an X and before ya know it, she will try and get ya back. There are alot of girls out there. If she has any inclination that you are pinning over her, shes going to love it even more, cause you allow her to have more control over your life. You must learn to respect yourself, before anyone will. I wish you alot of luck!
2007-01-24 02:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not gonna forget her but you will get over her, you cant make someone be with you if they dont want to be with you, I'm sure your an handsome man and trust me you will get over her but it gonna take time it only makes you stronger and you will find someone better you dont need her sweetie..........what you need to do is go out and meet new women and find the one that suits you or just wait the right one will come to you but go out with some friends and have fun enjoy life it's too short to be worried about her get you a real woman ok sweetie
2007-01-24 01:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no possible help you guy. there is no undemanding thank you to triumph over heartbreak - its taken me years to forget her, and nevertheless on occasion she pops up in my strategies. i've got come to realize which you on no account particularly recover from somebody, you on no account do. somebody gave me solid advice approximately this and that i wanna pass it on. t'll take time, months, maybe years, for me im occurring very almost 4 years now, yet they're going to come an afternoon once you pass to sleep and awaken and discover that she's no longer on your strategies anymore. that day will come my pal. this is going to, so stay solid. im nevertheless waiting for that day, and it will ensue. its sluggish-going yet because of the fact the years pass by ability of, she slowly fades and at some point would be long gone. heartbreak comes from true love, and adult males like us are a techniques and few in between that comprehend what true love and what real heartbreak is like. it hurts like hell. i comprehend. yet stay for your self now. you may pass on, purely be solid guy. look, because of the fact she cheated on you, hate might properly be an invaluable best pal. purely hate her and slowly it gets greater powerful. replace all those thoughts you have for her with hate and you will come out ok. even though it takes time dude. it takes time.
2016-11-01 04:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk, go to a strip club, get X number of lap dances, and move on.
And, yes, this is my answer to all the questions regarding getting over an ex. And, it works.
It also works for losing your job, finding out your being audited, or your ex won the lotto 2 days after you divorce was final.
Ladies, you can use this as well. Male strip club, female strip club, hey it's up to you.
2007-01-24 02:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
True, be a man about it, not some sniveling puppy. This turns everybody off... Face it, if she was turning tricks, you never had a relationship to start with. Why would you pine for somebody that doesn't want you?
2007-01-24 01:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by woobinator 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The easiest way is to find a replacement....even if it's just a short-term rebound girl...
2007-01-24 01:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look her up on the internet & don't talk to her anymore. Try to stay busy and don't think about her.
2007-01-24 01:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋