who is best ? person who respect and cares but we don't know that his respect and cares towards us is artificial or real or a person who loves us and can do anything for us but we are not sure that his affection towards us is for time being or permanently.,so how to know that who is true and best for us.
2007-01-24 01:23:23 · 25 answers · asked by payal s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would be real nice to get care and respect from the person who loves me madly. But if i have to choose either one, i would want person who gives me respect and care, as love is something which goes when harsh realities of life comes in. The person who respects me cares for me will try to understand the situation and evaluate accordingly and is also more level headed. but the one who is madly in live follows her heart and in life following the heart doesn't always help. The person who respects will guide me and warn me if i m about to take a wrong step but the one who just loves me will just follow whatever i do so for me i need a person who respects and cares for me becoz these are the basic things one needs to love someone madly
2007-01-24 18:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Santosh S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who loves u, because who will really love you will always care and respect you. As far as the time period for affection is concerned then only the true love can last till lifetime or even after the life and true love can only be found only by falling in love and testing the other person if he/she really cares abt u and ur parents and doesn't just running in crush.
2007-01-24 09:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by Surya Prakash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the person that respects me would be best. Im not saying love is bad , its just that loving madly could also turn into crazy. But I would think if this person has respect for me he would know how far to go with me, This is a really good question. But thats just my opinion.
2007-01-24 09:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Brea Mac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect is never demanded it is always commanded whereas love is a natural phenomenon which you get because of yourself as you are & represent to the person loving you. In both the cases you & yourself is being judged by the person either giving you respect or love & you cannot hold one better then other just for the sake one is just giving you respect while the other love. Rather you should feel proud & thankful to be getting both, & think of those who are deprived by both these.
2007-01-25 01:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who respect and cares because thats the person who loves you madly
2007-01-24 09:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always the best person is who cares and respects you. Be practical when you are making an opinion. First, try to know in his/her small/simple ways if she/he is considerate and cares. Then know if the person is logical enough and knows to categorise his priorities in the right manner. And know if anything happens to you, will that person be the first in your mind regardless of the time, situation .. that he/she will be there for you.
2007-01-24 09:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Massam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
undoubtedly the person who cares and respects you. Nothing is comparable in this world to the love and warmth a mother provides. How to trust a person? A difficult question, but you should look at his eyes when he/ she talks to you, eyes never deceive.
2007-01-24 11:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by dolly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who cares and respect is best, coz if a person loves madly, there it have possiveness and destroy the life.
2007-01-25 02:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is interesting and my view says infact care is the other name of love...cuz when u care u some times sacrifice also care is the essence of real love simply saying romantic and seducing words but wdout any care is not love just a flirting.
2007-01-24 09:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lover. He loves you because he respects you. Respect is a characteristic of Love and Love is a larger/broader term.
I also agree with the first answerer InessaIv
2007-01-24 11:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋