We have been married 19 years. I have no idea what she wants or likes, and don't want to spend much money. I also don't want to make anything or write anything, or get her anything that will make her fat. I want her to like it enouig that I get some sex that nioght, but not so much that she starts expecting really good presents from me. Any ideas?
2007-01-24 01:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Thanks, but:
Flowers cost a lot of money and die.
Teddy bears creep me out and just clutter up the place. Victorias Secret is something you get your girlfriend, not your wife.
I don't want to encourage her to laze around in the bath when she should be doing housework.
Jewelry is expensive
Dinner doesn't work because we really don't have much to talk about, and she'd probably want to order some fattening desert .
2007-01-24 01:37:38 · update #1
Okay - two things:
1) Answer Man is gay
2) The word is spelled "Loser." "Looser" is how I like my women.
2007-01-24 02:27:45 · update #2
perfume you think smells good on her, choclates (if she isnt dieting lol), a night out for dinner/movies, or jewelery.
2007-01-24 01:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really want to volunteer some suggestions, but I'm staggered by your revelation that after 19 years of marriage to the same lady, you have no idea what she likes or wants. Couple that with the stated fact that you don't want to spend much money, make anything or write anything, much less get her anything that will make her fat. Since your primary interest is giving her something that will get you laid that night, how about just saying "thank you" for putting up with your selfish self-centeredness all these years? Then start learning about this lady of yours and how to please her, before she decides she has had enough neglect for one lifetime and leaves you for someone else more thoughtful, not that that would be too terribly difficult to find.
2007-01-24 01:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I would suggest is the spell check for you the next is a night out on the town with flowers, dinner and a hotel room. Just make sure you do not ask her any questions because it may get awkward if she has to answer questions about her lover to you.
2007-01-24 04:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only thing I can think of is getting outside your cocoon, don't go to some restaurant or dancing but bring her to a beautiful place she wouldn't expect you to bring her. Just bring her there and speak about your 19 past years, that's the best gift you can make for her, believe me...
2007-01-24 01:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers are always nice, a big teddy bear...a gift card to victoria secret or bath and body works
2007-01-24 01:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by RedMami23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pathetic!! You've been married 19 yrs and don't even know what she likes or wants??!! Do you even talk to her? I can see not wanting to make or write something but come on. It seems like all you're interested in is sex, but I'm sure she won't catch on. Good luck with that!
2007-01-24 01:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by L@uren87 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
some thing personl (whether inexpensive) is often dazzling, fairly some thing that shows he paid interest. it is so straightforward as getting me that CD he's been listening to me rave approximately, or getting me some lotion that he observed became understanding. yet another concern is smash day. i do no longer comprehend in case you have toddlers or what your artwork/volunteer/family contributors duties are. i comprehend many mothers who purely want a grown-up dinner out on city without youngsters in sight. maybe this is 2 hours for her to have the abode all to herself one Saturday night so she would be in a position to have a bubble tub while you're taking the toddlers out to Grandma's. despite it is, it is often maximum heart-warming whilst it became a gesture that confirmed what I did in on a daily basis existence became significant to him. imprecise, i comprehend, yet i'm hoping this helps.
2016-11-01 04:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im suprised you two are even married that long! i dont see any love between you too by the way you write.i'd say she needs a better husband.women love roses we dont care if they die.you should be happy you have a wife because she's probably the only woman in the world that can put up with you.
2007-01-24 05:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by d4rkprincess84 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well, you just about killed every idea I had. Just don't celebrate it then. or buy her a card, thats all valentines day is anyways a holiday that the card companies use to get more money.
2007-01-24 05:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by sknymnie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can see by your attitude that you are just plain acting like you are grown.Have a great Valentines Day---Looser.
2007-01-24 02:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋