emotional pain?

Question

supposing you have been bombarded with emotional pain from all directions .. like ..
such *** getting low marks in an important year made the principle call you parents and your parents are really pissed with you and insult you 24/7
realizing you got nthn to live for
realzing that not many people like you
having a heavy feeling in your heart that just doesnt go away
what would you do if you were in my situation

Answer 1

Hey, i know you´re going through a really hard time now, and im sorry that things with your parents arent so great right now, but trust me when i say this feeling you are having..that awful heavy feeling in your heart that just doesnt seem like its goin to go away, well i promise you that this feeling will go away and i can see that your grades are very important to you, and its good that they are, but dont beat yourself up about not getting straight A´s all the time. It happens to everyone, ok? So, dont think that you´re alone in this and please dont let anyone tell you that you´re not smart, bcuz you are, you just need to find the thing that you are passionate about. And hey, of course you have something to live for, your parents might be mad at you right now, but the only reason they care enough to be mad is becuz they love you, and they´re just scared for you is all. I know parents have a really strange way of showing that sometimes, but they really just want whats best for you. And you know aside from all that, your grades and your situation at home..and just all the things that are making you sad right now, apart from that there must be so many amazing things that you havent yet discovered or perhaps things you´ve always wanted to try..things that are interesting to you, you know? I know life is very hard, and it can really suck sometimes, but there are also so many wonderful and beautiful things about it..you´ve just gotta find the thing that moves you. The things that touch your heart bcuz believe me..as hard as life is, its worth living. Just give yourself some time, and trust me, this feeling will go away, and someday you´ll be doing all the things you´ve always dreamed of.

Hey i really wish you all the best with everything. Good luck. And i hope you feel better soon. :)

Answer 2

I would start by going to the school counselor and talking to him or her. Maybe they can give you a different perspective, or possibly guide you to the proper help that you need.

Good luck and remember, you are just as important as anyone else on this earth and you deserve all that the world has to offer, so get help so you can get strong and live life like you should - with peace and happiness!!!

Answer 3

be strong, there is alot to live for. you're not perfect no one is perfect so what you do is learn from your mistakes and don't be ashamed of the ones you already made and will make. you know what your parents made mistakes and your principal did too. none of them are perfect they are only being this way with you because they know that you can do better and want only the best for you. do not give up. continue to hold on. life is a precious gift so enjoy it. all the best.

Answer 4

Honey, you didn't let your parents down, they just were living there own dreams and expectations through you!! They basically let theirselves down, for having such "High" expectations of you!!! If they were more like most parents and allowed you to flourish and find your own place in life, than you may have accomplished way more, than being "Pressured into doing something they wanted you to be!" Are you understanding what I am saying, I hope. My uncle went through the same thing... He was from a new Step Grandpa, of ours, and anyway he always wanted to be a "Bartender" in Hawaii, with his older brother, well his parents sent him to Law school, and had all of these high expectations of him,,, when he didn't pass the bar, twice!!! Boy, did his parents lay into him, about all the money they spent putting him through school, and all of their expectations were a big dissapointment! My poor uncle's "Wings" were clipped as a young man!! Then when his parent's couldn't stand eachother, they always kept him close, to be there go between......to do the talking for them, to interpet, everything they wanted to say to eachother, until he was in his late 30s, they gave him an allowance just to stay close to home, and even houses, and basically stoled his youth from him!!! Until my grandma, finally passed-away, then his father wanted nothing to do with him, because he became this Large person weight wise, because of all their issues,with keeping him home all of those years!!! So, when she first passed away, my Grandpa bought him a condo, and cut the ties, so he went into being a "Recluse".... Its so sad!! Here all these years, he was the important "Go Between" being paid, and pampered for it, to all of a sudden no one's there for him, or he sits back, and realizes his life has passed him by, all for his parents who are now nowhere to be found for him!! He was actually seeing a "Shrink" for his issues, for along time, because of what they did to him..... So, honey "Please Quit beating yourself up" for something your not, to please your parents!!! Thats not the road that's meant for you, and now you have to pick yourself up, and move forward, and dust off your shoulder's , chest out, and move on!!! Forget the past!! There is nothing you can do about yesterday, except forget about it!! Today's a new day, made just for you to do with what you feel is "Best" for you!!! Make plans on paper, set goals...... And then concentrate on how you can make them possible... Talk to people about how you can make them possible, get some insight, even ask another question on yahoo , as too how you can make your dreams possible!! Anything to keep yourself busy, hun!!! Idle hands are the devil's worshop, Busy hands are happy hands!!! Smile, today's a NEW Day, just for you to start FRESH!!!! Who care's about yesterday, yesterday's GONE!!!!

Answer 5

You must have SOMETHING to live for...It seems hard right now, but find someone ( church, counselor,) to talk to...someone that you trust and can help you sort out what probably seems like insurmountable odds.