more romatic without them knowing that I am trying to make them romantic. I realize just having to make someone romantic is unromantic in itself but I'll take what I can get at this point. Please help a romantic at heart married to a cold fish.
2007-01-23 23:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by One Sexy Chic 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You can't change people so your best bet is to learn to live with it. I am sure that nothing much has changed from the time you were going out to now. So maybe if you are romantic he might get the idea or like what you are doing and try some of his own but in reality you can't make someone something they are not!.
2007-01-23 23:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just wait until the next time he brings home flowers (etc. etc.) and keep admiring them and treating them special (fresh water, cutting the ends off) and thanking him and making love to him until he benefits more than you do for being romantic. If you don't get flowers, then pick something else he does. Men are just like women. They want to be appreciated and that always leads me to romance. He's already "won" you so he has no challenge. Give him one by positive reinforcement. Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-01-24 07:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, I'd be direct. But the book called something like 1001 ways to be more romantic...
2007-01-24 07:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by davidinark 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break the TV and the fridge
take him to see a good film - which is funny + romantic
then cos the fridge is bust go out for dinner and talk about football, the old days, holidays ....
2007-01-24 07:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can change anyone unless they themselves want to change. So in your case as close as you're going to get is to make a list and come right out and tell him exactly what you want, how and when.
jw
2007-01-24 07:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as_fugitive is right I knew when I married my husband that he wasn't the romantic type and he can't kiss good either, but he has other good qualities and that he who and what he is and I Love him for that.
2007-01-24 07:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
romance runs in d blood
u cnt make someone romantic
2007-01-24 08:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do romantic stuff for urself and pretend (yes to urself) that he did. no hassle and plus u get to insane for a while
2007-01-24 07:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by pixoncoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you can't "make" anyone do anything. Just tell them this is something you need and see how they adjust.
2007-01-24 07:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but my first marriage was like that. I didn't change her
2007-01-24 07:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by mjnjtfox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋