He uses foul language
2007-01-23 22:58:54 · 20 answers · asked by Whn_I_was_in_School 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't need to "do" anything to him but you need to help your children and protect them. Verbal abuse is almost (but not quite) as bad as physical abuse. The children need to learn that they are good, worthwhile, valuable, and lovable in spite of what your husband says. You need to learn the same lesson and require respect and your honor from your husband. If he will not change, you may need to take more more drastic action. Help the children.
2007-01-23 23:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Using foul language in and of itself is not abusive. If he occasionally says the 'f-word' you are being dramatic and need to grow up.
If there is abuse going on though which you don't have to provide details about, do the right thing and get out. Your husband and you can go to therapy and work on the issue later, but the important thing right now is your safety and your child's safety and then worry about your relationship.
2007-01-24 07:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey did you know that now it is a crime to use foul language in the presence of a child, just call up the police next time he is cussing and by the time they get there it will be even worse for Mr. Potty mouth and have him arrested and then file a TPO for you and your child. Do it before the cussing ends and the hitting begins!
2007-01-24 07:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him know you disprove Of it. Warn him that if it continues, you'll call the police. The police can have him removed for using foul language in the presence of a child.
2007-01-24 07:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
foul language certainly is threatening to a child. never should he use bad language in front of child. if he continues, get out before the language escalates to violence.
2007-01-24 07:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about husband but you need to grow up.
Foul language is NOT abuse.
Black eye, broken arm, a crack across the face, that's abuse.
If he has not laid a finger on you you have not been much abused.
Call the police and tell them he yelled at you, they may come when they stop laughing.
Sticks and stones. . . . . . . . . . .
2007-01-24 07:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother I find it hard to understand why you are even asking this question.
If your little one is being abused physically or mentally leave and do not look back.
Children are innocent and this type of behaviour is frightening .
Also to hear mother on the receiving end of this type of abuse is not good for any child.
Have you heard the old saying about the mother hen and her chicks.?
Take care!
2007-01-24 07:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is worse than just occassional bad language, or gets physical, wait until he leaves the house, then take your kid and leave. Leave everything behind. Nothing matters but your safety.
2007-01-24 07:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Chickgeek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For you and your baby run. A lot of kids grow into abusive adults due to growing up in abusive home environments
2007-01-24 07:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People have considered divorce for trivial reasons, your reasons are valid. There is no need to put up for all negative reasons, is there atleast one positive reason for going ahead in this relationship ?
2007-01-24 07:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋