I'm married, and have been having an affair with a man for 8 years. Whats the chances of him seeing someone else along with me? serious reply's please.
2007-01-23 22:52:27 · 31 answers · asked by K.W. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is married as well.
2007-01-23 22:53:37 · update #1
Question like this you shouldn't asked it in here, because no matter how sincere you are, you should know what the answered you're gonna get. It might offended a lot other people and also you. So my advice is no ones know it better but yourself. You did tied a knot yourself,the only person know how to untied it, just you. Or ask someone who you can trust the most like your mother, your sister or a psychiatric. No ones is perfect, so don't feel bad yourself.
2007-01-23 23:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lilian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your wasting your time with this person, there is a real good chance of him seeing someone else, especially if u give him ultimatums, and want more from him. obviously he is not going to leave her and marry u. he has the best of both worlds. u are basically just a victim here, as while your spending your time with him, being available when he comes, your cheating yourself out of a committed relationship with someone who could give u what u deserve. he is just a player, wants to have something on the side, a little variety to spice up his life, while u let him do it. u could spend the next 10 years, and have him get tired of u too. he probably isn't getting out of the marriage because of financial reasons. he is using u and theres no promise of anything from him at all.
2007-01-23 23:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you even get married? And, why are you still married. Oh, he must make a lot of money. And, you are probably the type who would scream divorce if your husband ended up running around on you, and try to take him for everything you can. Not only do you want you cake and to eat it to. But, you want this other married man's cake as well.
I am not gay, but this is the best argument for allowing them to marry. Everytime I hear the religious talk about "protecting the sanctity of marriage" I think of cases like this. How do you protect something when the people allowed to experience don't even care to protect it.
Sad.
2007-01-24 00:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course the chances are that he will see someone else.
He has no reason to be faithful to you when he can,t be
faithful to his own WIFE. After 8 years with you it might
be time to find a newer model mistress, while little wifey
is at home still good enough to cook and clean and most
probably sleep with him. Unaware that her hubby is with
someone ( because my wife doesn,t understand me').
The chances are you suspect him already - find your own
man and don,t be used anymore.
(This is a serious reply)
2007-01-23 23:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you extremely love somebody, you will proceed to love them for an entire life; despite if not all loves are meant to final an entire life, nor are all loves sturdy or healthful for you. A love relationship with a guy that has been cheating on your for the previous 3 years isn't a healthful relationship. cheating is a symptom which skill there are issues on your relationship. 3 years of significant issues is lots to artwork out! i individually does not choose to be with somebody that has been untrue for 3 years! i might pass on and take a little time to examine how i'm going to have contributed to such an undesirable relationship, so whilst the actual Mr. ideal comes alongside i could be waiting.
2016-12-16 16:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by bumbray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances are quite high I'm afraid. Once people start cheating on one person, they usually (but not always) cheat on the next and the next and so on.
2007-01-23 23:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lochie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a very good chance he's seeing others since he obviously doesn't mind seeing you and your married. Realistically he doesn't have to commit to you since you do have a husband.
2007-01-23 22:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously he doesnt care about his own wife, thats why he's bumping u. any man that dnt take care of his family cnt be trusted.
he's prob got some other girls that he visits here n there. so i wouldnt start to feel "his special girl" or anything.
plus u need to get a life *uckin about with sum1's man? and for 8 yrs? hoooo
2007-01-23 22:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a stupid question. He is already cheating on you WITH HIS WIFE! How could you possibly care if he finds yet another woman to spend some time with?
2007-01-23 23:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are pretty good. If he grew tired of his wife after so many years maybe he might have grown tired of you also.
2007-01-23 22:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋