Did you have it "together" before you had children or did you get it "together" when you had children or neither.
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2007-01-23 22:39:32 · 7 answers · asked by Raven 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i learn from my children almost every single Day
2007-01-23 22:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having kids forced me to not give up on things. Until I had kids I gave up on everything - courses, people, places etc. But you can't give up on your children even though at times you think you might want to. So it stabilised me - made me 'get it together' and now when things go wrong outside my family I have my kids to keep me strong - so it works both ways.
2007-01-23 22:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I were both partiers to the EXTREME...we got pregnant after being together only five months, and it absolutely stabilised us both. Now we're married and just had our third baby, and we're both very together. If we hadn't had babies we'd still be way out there, and probably would've messed up our relationship along the way. Good question!
2007-01-23 22:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought i knew what i wanted out of life before I had my children but then after i had them my ideas changed.
2007-01-23 23:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by ~CountryKitten~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only have one, and I had her when I was 20 (I think!).
I was not at all together before I had her, and I am still not together now !
2007-01-23 22:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was a pot smoking partier till I got pregnant then I cooled it down for my kids. I got it together now!
Nice kitty BTW!
2007-01-23 22:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am not a mother but i have it together and get it together!!!
2007-01-23 22:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋