I was introduced to this guy we have been talking bout two weeks not everyday, off and on. We get along great, great conversations, why we never seen each other is cuz we live 40 miles apart. He has no car and I dont also. Im a night stocker, he works the day time. He has no pc/internet(doesnt know nothing bout computers he tells me) so no emails/pics whatever. He told me he came out of the closet 4 years ago, actually what I sense he still has a "Foot out of the closet". He's told me once if we go to the movies "we will be sitting a seat apart", I guess in this type of friendship, I kind of love his personality and love to meet him but here are some of the red flags...He says his friends always say he looks hot, but he thinks he looks like a normal guy(so why tell me that? Impressing me?) He asked me if I was a jealous person(what? & why? Should I be?) Last weekend he left a voicemail saying, "this isnt meant to be, so this is the last time Im going to call you, bye. Today he called.
2007-01-23 22:24:13 · 3 answers · asked by zuegma1977 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes I agree OilCity, its been a while since someone showed intrest on me by phone conversations not looks(Im consider myself great looking guy). And Of course I've never seen this guy, and I love what I hear(aside what I've mentioned). When Im at work at night, he leaves voicemail for me, he's just talking saying hello ect. I think thats sweet. I cant stand this sometimes, need the physical love. He also shows off telling me he's 6'1, muscular built, butch looking guy; yum. Try to picture that, cuz I cant I just love his personality. Ok sounds Im stupidly in love...
2007-01-23 22:39:47 · update #1
He is uncomfortable with himself right now it sounds like. Find somebody that is secure and that way you and the person will have a happy healthy relationship without a lot of questions unanswered. This guy may need to find himself before looking for someone else.
2007-01-23 22:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my view, this guy sounds conflicted. He seems to not know what he wants. My advice is to stay away from him, he sounds pretty crazy...could be trouble! Good Luck!
2007-01-23 22:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by OilCityBug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's to start? He's not ready.
2007-01-23 22:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋