My girlfriend and i have been together for 5-6 months, and everthing started off great. But now she hardly even looks at me and she doesn't talk to me that much either. She doesn't do all the things she used to do. Please help me to know whats going on?! Also i have been having dreams about her ex and just the other nite i had a dreams that she was cheating on me/ when i told her, she didn't say anything about it. She just asked me who thats it! I don't know if that means anyting or not. I just want everything to get better. please help me out.
2007-01-23 22:08:30 · 5 answers · asked by K.M. 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A lot of times in a realtionship throughout it's progression significant others start giving less and less validation to their counterpart. Or she might just not be that into you. You should talk to her..see if everything is okay, you might just be making a mountain out of a mole hill...and if your not better to fing out now than in another 6months.
2007-01-23 22:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Guy With Long Hair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the honeymoon's over dearie. It's a normal part of every relationship.You're hitting the first low in this partnership. Most couples don't get through this part as it takes faith and perseverance. In time things will get better and sort of "level off" for you.
As for your dream of her cheating. The most important thing to remember is that IT'S A DREAM. It's only happening in your head and not the real world.
Just hang in there and things will be OK.
2007-01-23 22:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not reciprocating back the love you give, then keep it moving and find someone else who is willing to give back that love. Dont waste your time. Dreams can mean alot, I mean she could of been sleeping with anyone in that dream but she wasnt it was her EX. Go with your gut feeling and love yourself enough to not let anyone take advantage of you.
2007-01-23 23:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honeymoon's over. You have to work at a relationship and, if it aint going where you both want it, then you should end it, before you both get bitter.
2007-01-23 23:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind set is changing day by day and I feel you are not loving her as you did earlier!
"FOR EVERY ACTION THERE IS AN OPPOSITE AND EQUAL REACTION" -- YOU FEEL IT NOW, SHE MIGHT HAVE FELT LONG BACK!!!!
2007-01-23 22:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋