My girlfriend and i have been together for 5-6 months, and everthing started off great. But now she hardly even looks at me and she doesn't talk to me that much either. She doesn't do all the things she used to do. Please help me to know whats going on?! Also i have been having dreams about her ex and just the other nite i had a dreams that she was cheating on me/ when i told her, she didn't say anything about it. She just asked me who thats it! I don't know if that means anyting or not. I just want everything to get better. please help me out.
2007-01-23 22:08:01 · 3 answers · asked by K.M. 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
honey, this doesn't sound good to me. the best thing you can do is confront lovingly on your feelings. your dreams may be telling you something that you already know subconsciously but are afraid to admit consciously. any other time i would tell you that the romance wears off after time, but this sounds different. if she won't even look at you it sounds as if she has something to feel guikty about. and if you told her about your dreams and still no comment then they might be true. if it e\weren't true she would have told you and let you know you are the only girl for her. honesty and openess in any relationship is always best. i do not envy you and wish you didn't have to go through this but it seems that is where fate has brought you this time. take care and God Bless.
2007-01-23 22:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she might be getting tired of the same ol'....You might need to extend more effort on your part to have her do the things she used to do. You can only do so much on your part on communicating concerns on your relationship. If she is unwilling to communicate, then realize your relationship will not last. Try not to reveal insecurities or trust issues w/ dream stories or straight out asking her if she's cheating. Just get to the bottom line of it, since you could be wasting your time.
2007-01-27 21:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by sorrowlaughed25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honeymoon's over. You have to work at a relationship and, if it aint going where you both want it, then you should end it, before you both get bitter.
2007-01-23 23:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋