See his one of the Assistant Managers at my job. And I know that I shouldn't even go there because it would be consider sexually harassment.But I don't think it would even matter if I did say something. Because the work environment is relaxed and not really professional. And I plain on quieting soon. Anyway, his really young, his 23 as am I. And he often goes out to clubs with some of my coworkers. So I don't even think it would matter.
Anyway, his gay and I just recently come out I'm bi. And ever since he found out that I was bi his kinda of been flirting with me or at least it seems like he is.But he has a boyfriend or he did. He just broke with him. I've had a crush on him for about two years and this feelings won't go away.I think about him all the time.His one of the most sweetest people I've ever meet. I want to tell him how I feel but I scared. I've never been the one to approach someone. I guess I'm kinda of scared of rejection. What should I do?
2007-01-23 21:43:57 · 8 answers · asked by LoveHateSorrow 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I also say go for it !!!! You say you feel he has been a little flirty ... that would give me the sign he was interested. Just tighten up your boot straps and ask him out for coffee or a drink sometime after work. I think you both are interested in each other, but nobody is making the first move. And don't worry about rejection .... all that means is there is something better out there for you! Good luck
2007-01-24 00:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i truly understand being scared of rejection so thats why i have been alone for the last 18 years. the best thing you can do is GO FOR IT. tell the boy how you feel. the worst he can do is say no, but i really don't think he will from the sounds of it. this may be bad advice, but if he just broke up then he is on the rebound and needs someone there anyway, why shouldn't it be you. if you will be quitting soon anyway then the job part of it doesn't really matter. and trust me a gay supervisor is not going to hollar sexual harassment unless you keep bugging him after he has repeatedley rejected your advances. sexual harassment is for women that are harassed by men and at times other women, for str8 men who get hit on by guys like me and for the gay men that are so full of theirself and their relationship that they think they are above everyone else. he does not sound like he fits into any of those catagories so like i said GO FOR IT BABY!!!!
2007-01-24 05:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-24 05:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach him outside of work and see what happens. There's no reason in denying yourself the opportunity to see if you two could have a relationship.
Go for it! The worst thing that can happen is your not asking him and missing out on a wonderful relationship. The next worse thing is asking him and finding out he's not interested.
2007-01-24 06:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go fot it!!!!
Just sneak up to him and ask if he wants to hang out sometime. Just like that. "Hey, do you wanna hang out sometime"
His answer will tell you everything you need to know.
"Yeah, when", "definitely", "im free tonight", "im free saturday"
are all good signs, and mean he wants to learn more...
try to lock in a time and date, or it might just sit there and never get followed up.
"Sure" -could mean he likes you as a buddy, but nothing more. plan a date and time with him, get him out and feel out his mood.
If he says no, or makes an excuse it probably isn't meant to be. could be that he likes having a distraction at work.
I think you'll be fine, all the signs are there that he wants it too.
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2007-01-24 11:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it would be good for him to get back in the game just ask him out for a drink after work or to your leaving party! when he has had a few drinks he should chill out alot and flirty doesnt hurt anyone he would probably like to know that a girl likes him it would boost his confidence and isnt sexual harassment take him shopping he would love that ask him out he will be back up ready for a new relationship soon! just keep it proffesional in work and it shouldnt mater i no it seem strange getting advice from a 15 year old but thats my advice good luck!
2007-01-24 05:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by ashleigh c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just walk up to him and discreetly grab his cork-n-balls and whisper "how about goin raw dog with me?" and then lick your lips!!!! If he's down you're good if not you don't have to worry about quitting.
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2007-01-24 05:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋