see my freien has a bf.... and well i dont think that that guy is good for her..... and i know one day he is gonna leave her alone.... but when i said it to her... she got angry at me... and is saying i am jealous
I know a girl.. who used to go out wid this guy... and he left her one day............... WHAT SHOULD I DO!!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!
am i jealous or not.... gimme advice!!'
HELP!
2007-01-23 21:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by gunnerz4lyfe! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you're half jealos and half caring for your friend. as a friend, of course, you'll advice her so she won't get hurt. well, that's friend's responsibility, right? and maybe you're jealous too coz of the time your friend spends with his guy. its ok to feel something like that. its normal. but come to think of it, you should just stop telling her negative things about their relationship coz you're not really sure if that guy will really leave her some day! and if he does, just stand there... or sit there with your friend and comfort her. its your job, remember? if you'll be like that, she'll just thank you and appreciate you even more and she may even think that you're totally right about what you told her. maybe the next time she gets a boyfriend, she'll ask for your advice first.
2007-01-23 21:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did all that you could as a friend. She wont leave him, in fact, this maybe made her wanna stay even more. Just be calm and keep in touch with her but dont offer her any advice should problems occur in her relationship or she might judge your responses.
2007-01-23 21:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have told her, so let it go.... Then when he dumps her, don't say i told you so, just be there for her....
Only you can answer if you're jealous or not, but being truthful is what matters most in any friendship, or relationship....
2007-01-23 21:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Linda Jo V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to let your friend make her own mistakes.
She already thinks your jeolous. So if they do break
up be there for her - and don,t say 'I told you so'.
No I don,t think your jealous - just a bit paranoid!
2007-01-23 21:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not gere to help you . sorry .
but i wanna tell u that :it was definetly not me believe it or not . If it was me i must have told you . And i would have definetly not been soory if i reported it . I think it was not the looser who reported it but yahoo answers deleted it . gud gud , the question deserved to be deleted.
no offense , hows ur a.b going on ?
Thanks.
2007-01-23 21:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tourist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wont listen 2 u when it actually happens its her thts goin 2 b left alone. at least u tried.
2007-01-23 22:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Laura4864 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause u said: "am i jealous" that means u also like his BF , your unconsiousness told u that
2007-01-23 21:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your bussiness and when she gets hurt then she will realize you were right. nomatter if you tried to stop her, she wont listen. people never listens until they get hurt
2007-01-23 21:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋