ok Ive been buddies with my friend for a long time, since about kindergarden. This is now in highschool and we were hanging out alot everyday. Like alot more then usual friends would hang out probably about every single day. We used to go to alot of parties and hang out with some people. Weve had alot of good memories just going out somewhere and having a few good laughs. But now, lately, we haven't been hanging out at all. He did have some friends before that he had kind of ditched and now we hang out alot less and he's been hanging around his old friends and completely ignores me. We talk at school because his friends don't attend their. But yah, now I just feel completely alone because I feel like Ive just lost my best friend and hes now coming back. He used to call me alot to just hang out now I'll get a call once in a while.
2007-01-23 21:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by everydayisanewday191 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leave it alone. stop sweating him. Let him go after you. Don't kiss butt because if you do he will not come back. just act like you don't care and when he calls and ask to hang out go but don't show him you're so excited.
2007-01-23 21:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I sense you 2 hung out a lot---just kidding---it's the way you wrote your letter. Anyway--what you both are experiencing is simply growing up. Millions of kids meet new people and move on--it doesn't mean anything--you need to move on too. It's just natural. You should want to expand your horizons and circle of friends and acquaintances. In 5 years you'll have a whole new crowd and new interests---so realize that nothing stays the same. You will be too busy to just hang out or whatever. You are just growing up....now get out there and start having fun and meeting new people.
2007-01-23 21:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to worry too much, I've been through the same circumstances before. Actually your friend still care about you.It's just that when he's got new friends, he wants to spend more time got to know them. That's why he spend less time with you.You can give yourself and him some time and personal space.He'll get back to you after a while.In the meantime, maybe you can try to hang out with new people, then you'll understand much better.Good Luck!
2007-01-23 22:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by tenuta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend just want some time with his other friends. you said you two hang out.. a lot and maybe he's sooo used to it that sometimes, its not that fun anymore for him. give him some time for himself and his old friends. there's nothing wrong about that. when things are really changed and your friend is totally ignoring you, confront him. have the courage to ask him why he's being like that to you. tell him how you feel.
2007-01-23 21:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, do I know from experiece- best friends are hard to get rid of! Try not to think too much and keep your fears to yourself. It is just a little anxiety, not a heart attack. You will find that people always stick with what makes them comfortable, and there's nothing more comforting than your best friend. In his case, that's you!
2007-01-23 22:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by SHAWNPX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, buddy? Just leave him alone... Go to him when he needs help.
2007-01-23 22:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by nana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋