i admit that i'm a bit envy with my cousin.. she's pretty and has a winsome smile. me??? i'm not that dull to look at.. infact i'm tall and she's not.. oh.****. here i go again.
my problem is that every time we go out.. most of the guys look at her.. and that makes me feel a bit jealouse and i hate myself for that! i don't want to be... i kep on telling my self that i should not be feeling like this because she's my cousin. but damn! i can't hepl it.
will you please help me... i'm tired of feeling so insecured.
i've not told my cousin about this yet.. i don't wan't to..
2007-01-23 21:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by _nakahhidit_ 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ma...she's not a lot hotter than me...hehehehehe! maybe your right.. i'm just thinkin of how other people think.
infact, she's plastic! and i'm more intelligent than her. hahahahahhA! oh well.... she's shorta and i'm not. i've got boobs and she doesn't.
2007-01-23 21:17:26 · update #1
Well, first of all..the most attractive thing about an individual is CONFIDENCE. You are not giving that off to others. If you are confident in yourself and know that you are special and attractive in many ways..that you are special inside and out..then you will give that off to others..if you feel insecure..people see that immediately. Give yourself some credit. Start by writing 10 things everyday that you are happy about yourself. Not just appearances..but inside too..you will start to feel those things are true about yourself..because they ARE..and it will help you remember how great you really are and others will see and feel it from you too!!! Good Luck.
2007-01-24 01:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by wartytoadjody39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time probably you only notice the people looking at her cause thats all your mind seems to be preoccupied with when you both go out. Probably you're both getting about the same amount of stare time, just you don't seem to notice it. Either that your your cousin is a hell of a lot hotter than you in which case that sucks for you.
2007-01-24 05:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find a 400 pound acne faced girl to hang out with so the guys will look at you. Of course that would be pretty pathetic but at least you wont be jealous.
2007-01-24 05:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl you gotta find what's beautiful about YOU and not about other people. You first have to love yourself.
2007-01-24 05:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by ArmyChica87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a doctor
2007-01-24 05:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Nouni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be generous and you will feel happy
2007-01-24 05:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋