can you tell me some of your experiences
2007-01-23 19:45:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
BY LEAVING That Abuser BEHIND ... and going onward with your Life withOUT them around.
This means divorce, it means living with SAFETY PLANS first and foremost in your life, it means finding a safe house to flee to (when they come around again with their never-ending demands), it means Alarm Systems and Protective Orders (which they will never obey), and it means having to EAT the costs of all the torment of this Abuser forever and ever ...
But you HAVE to keep moving forward ... working hard, earning the income to provide for yourself and your family .. and yes, paying the bills for the damages that the ex causes when they show back up.
2007-01-23 20:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult one however the majority of abusers have deep underlying problems, usually from their past, one needs to firstly discover what these are before they are able to set the abuser on the road to recovery.
2007-01-23 20:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't deal well with them. I stayed in a relationship for many years because I had children by the man, but he mentally and physically abused me. It finally got so bad that I ran off with my children to Safeplace for help.
2007-01-23 19:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer something will replace till you flow out and change into self sufficient. i'm interior the U. S. and of an older era yet in my time a fragile guy typically went into the military appropriate after severe college till he had plans on attending a school. I take position to imagine that continues to be a good idea.
2016-10-16 00:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
help him. Abusive people are usually hurting inside.
2007-01-23 20:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by rovendinoalui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. i dont know if i was rude, but sometimes i approach the person and ask why he was like that,, he just silenced himself and left.
well i was nervous coz i thought he would wait for me and plan someting not right. but luckily nothing happened to me.
2007-01-23 20:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by jhust b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you always try your best to diffuse the situation.... if that dosen't work, you stand your ground never let anyone walk over you, they will keep doing it.
2007-01-23 20:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you stay then you are at fault. if someone is abusive why do you stay. you are obviously aware of the problem but your fear keeps you there
2007-01-23 20:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by holleemerry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't deal with them.
2007-01-23 19:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ jolie ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act tough, don't let them lie you down.
2007-01-23 19:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by maggotier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋