2007-01-23 19:35:05 · 12 answers · asked by fiasco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The advantages are that it's fun...that's it lol. The disadvantages are overwhelming. If you get her pregnant 9 times out of 10 it will ruin your relationship with your current partner. You can easily get STD's and those are permanent and sometimes life-threatening. Once you have sex with one person it's easier to do it again with your next partner making the first two a bigger possibility. When you're younger (and sometimes older) the hormones get in the way and your relationship can go from being great to being all about sex until you stop some day and look at it only to realize you don't have anything in common but the fact that you like sex. It NEVER strengthens a relationship until you're married, and sometimes the big commitment of living together or something like that is applicable but not so much as marriage b/c by then you've found someone where it can't be messed up with casual sex. For women, the first time most women at some point feel like a slut. Even tho it's only one guy and it was one time. Your virginity is linked with your self-respect and just b/c you do give it up doesn't make you a slut so watch out for that pitfall with the girl it will mess with your relationship. So there are a lot of cons and only one pro. Oh I know a lot of guys tend to turn into jerks after they first begin to hit it too btw. I don't know it's just a thing lol.
2007-01-23 19:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by A W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Advantages: knowing that you are sexually compatable. if you have multiple partners, you're not curious about what it's like with others. you won't marry just to have sex. it's fun. you may develop a realistic veiw about sexuality and become more comfortable in the bedroom than someone who veiws sex as dirty.
Disadvantages: risks for unwanted pregnancy (this is still a risk in marriage), sti's (still a risk in marriage although less likely). Both risks can be minimalised uhm...? actually, any other disadvantage I can think of can happen during marriage ie. using sex for negative reasons.
2007-01-23 21:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, youve heard the disadvantages, but what are you going to do if you wait for your wedding night and find out that your spouse has a fetish that you find descusting?? the only way to find this stuff out is with experience, (I didnt know I what I liked untill I had a few times around) if a guy or girl has a verry strong fetish of hand cuffs or ropes and there partner cant get turned on when those are used, the sex part of the relationship is out, the affairs start, and your lives go to hell......
2007-01-23 20:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advantages: No surprises in the bedroom on your wedding night, know if you're sexually compatible, etc.
Disadvantages: Might marry just because you have good sex, chance for diseases if there have been other partners, chance of pregnancy, etc.
2007-01-23 19:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience is the only advantage. R u willing to allow ur partner to have the same freedom?
2007-01-23 22:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
advantages? feels good
disadvantages? getting pregnant without the father. a gamble here.
2007-01-23 19:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you never have premarital sex you'll definitely never get a sexual disease unless your spouse does.
If you do have casual sex you have more sex and never feel like your life has been wasted.
2016-04-06 04:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Felix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing left to your romance on that beautiful wedding night. You are both used and nothing to discover. You have dirtied up a wonderful experience. Your married future has been soiled and the chances of success are compromised. It's true....been there!
2007-01-23 19:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by zeepogee 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I will just say this, do you buy a car without test driving it first?
2007-01-23 21:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advantage - satisfy lusts
Disadvantage - Chance of disease, bastard children or abortion, jealous boyfreind, eternal damnation due to fornication.
2007-01-23 19:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by rob 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋