I am kinda of a tom boy. I don think I dress bad but I feel like when I go out I should have more dress up clothes. My boy friend is really into how he looks and I just want to be comfortable. what should I do??? I feel like I am dresses down all the time compared to my boyfriend. On top of it everything looks good on him even a paper bag.
2007-01-23 19:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by Dakota S 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
try dressing more girly when you guys go out on dates and stuff...but just dress however you feel comfortable! He's your boyfriend because he cares about you! Not what you wear.
2007-01-23 19:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by uhhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u sould dress how you want to, if you want to dress up then do. Just because your bf dresses in the latest style doesn't mean you have to. Dress how you want to, being a tomboy doesn't matter its not how you dress that makes you a nice person it is who you are. Try dressing up once and if you dont feel comfortable then dont do it again. If you are going to dress up wear some nice jeans and a girly top that way get used to being more girly then boyish.
2007-01-23 19:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by keeky.c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just thinking that way about yourself too much. It's said that a person's perception of self is worse than others' towards you. Like, you might feel like a "drag" in a dress cuz you're not used to wearing it but for some people, it looks totally gorgeaous. Besides, I know you're pretty and your bf loves you for who you are but you just need to boost up your confidence more. The first thing to do is to start with yourself. Accept who your are and set aside personal criticisms when looking at yourself in the mirror so you can start with a blank "canvas". It begins with the inner cuz wat you feel inside is what's gonna appear on the outside. Your boyfriend seem confident about himself that's why even a potato sack can look good on him. Be more confident, and put your head up high. Experiment on clothes or scan in magazines so you can get the idea of your style; or get inspired. Put on a little makeup to bring more life to your face. Do try to put down your barriers in experimenting with fashion. Change can take a while to getting used to but with a little determination, you'll be fine. You don't have to get insecured all the time. Work it! :)
2007-01-23 19:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your happy with the way you dress role with it.. also being that you have a man , if he wants you to dress up every now and then do it. but dont just change the way you gress because someone thinks you dress like a tom boy
2007-01-23 19:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by lilsexy5fuda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now. u r comparing urself to ur boyfriend?? that is the whole problem!! u can never be BOY...so stop comparing urself with him.
u r the most beautiful creature God created...A GIRL!! exploit that! wear feminine clothes.....get facials....and show ur feminism. u will look and feel good. and u'll stop comparing urself with a guy! he'll go GA-GA over you!
and u'll realize that u dont need a paper bag to look good. :)
2007-01-23 19:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by is it me? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋