first be honest! you cannot communicate with them while you are gone and thats it! you will find out who your friends are and who are not. you cannot take on their negative feelings. you are you! I know I have 3 teenagers. I always tell them be yourself, and I mean it, if they cannot accept it then they were never your friends in the first place. you can only own what is yours as a wise man wants told me! what other's think, they own that! enjoy yourself, learn about YOU! do not let anyone influence you in the wrong direction! I know all about pressure, well let me tell you,. you do what's right, you be true to yourself and if you can tell them the truth. Now if they have a problem, it's on them, not you. cell phones, jeez, I still don't answere mine if I'm driving, they can wait, I am not crashing because a cell is ringing. usually it's my soon to be 13 year old snotty hotty, which we have our talks and I she knows I say what I mean and mean what I say. She worries that she will lose her friends if she doesn't do what they say, which being a single mother I say be a leader, not a follower! I was a teenager back then having a camaro was the greatest thing, cell phones (what was that back then). but like I said I have 3 teenagers and trust me my yongest scares me the most. truth or dare, I'll show you truth or dare. Just kidding! at least we talk and she they ask me questiones and I am strict but also open minded. You don't need to explain yourself if it causes problems! you can be nice, but you don't have to explain yourself esp. if the school didn't know! if they did then it would be easier, otherwise , depending on how long you were gone, you can say you had lost your voice or something lOL! I know it's not funny, but only you know the details and take from there, if you haven't already! life isn't easy and we eventuallly know who our true friends are and who are not. good luck.
fighterprincess
2007-01-23 19:41:53
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