Who comes crawling back more after an affair Men or Women?

Question

If they left and then returned was it more likely to be a man or women? I'm thinking men but wanted to see your opinion.

Answer 1

probably men. They think irrationaly more often than women do. Must be a man thang!! Then they'll realize what they've done and want back in. Women fall deep (usually) when they have an affair, and know what their doing. ....for most part..

Answer 2

I think men do because they are more likely to get involved for physical reasons; they act rashly because they're thinking with the wrong "head", but after the lust is over, he regrets leaving a woman who gave him the security of a stable relationship. In short, most of them don't know what they got until it's gone.
Women on the other hand, usually stray because their emotional needs are not being met, and to fill the hole in her heart, she is drawn to another man, one who pays her the attention she craves. I think most give their husbands opening after opening to fix what she thinks is wrong in their marriage, but after years of trying to make him understand, she gives up and moves on. Because this new man satisfies her needs, there is no reason to go back, after all, he's not doing her laundry or cooking her meals, and in the bedroom there's nothing for her either, so there's no reason to go back, and every reason to go forward.

I think women are more likely to beat a deat horse with a stick for much longer than a man would, really makes sure it's dead, before she goes shopping for another. Men are more impulsive, often it's shoot now and ask questions later. But this, along with the problems in the marriage that made him do this in the first place, is usually a last straw for the wife, and she never takes him back.

I think that the two people involved in any relationship need to shut up and just listen to what their spouse is yelling out loud, really HEARD each other, maybe this cheating thing would settle down.

Answer 3

Seriously speaking.
Men will crawl back but not for love but to having sex mostly but
Women returns because they love the man and very often is sincere about it.

Good Luck

Answer 4

I'm going to be very fair on the one........Most likely it would be men and that is only an opinion. I view it as Men seem to get caught more often then Women, because Women seem to be more Sneaky.

Answer 5

I think you're right. My husband is a big time piece of **** and in his opinion hasn't cheated but has had "inappropriate friendships" with several females that all ended up stalking me. He always has come crawling back to me and I hate him for it, but I hate even more that I am not self sufficient without him until next year when I finally will graduate from college.

Answer 6

Over the last 5 years it's pretty much been 50 / 50. I've seen the
same amt. of women return to a broken relationship.

Answer 7

Men and women cheat for different reasons. In my own experience when a woman cheats it is unlikely she will come back, mainly because she is establishing her break and doing something that will make it permanent. Men mainly just get horny and act stupid.

Answer 8

I think it's men! Two reasons: 1. Women are more stubborn, they don't like to admit they made mistake 2. Men don't like to forgive.

Answer 9

Men.

Answer 10

Im thinking men