After I left college my very best friend in the whole world became really good friends with this guy I was involved with my senior year, whom of course she met through me. This thing we had ended very badly, and I still regard him as the one person in this world that has cut me deeper than anyone. She and I are still extremely close, but I guess now he's one of her "best friends" also and it hurts like crazy. I mean girls are supposed to stick together right? What should I do, should I tell her that it bothers me...or am I just acting like a girl and need to get over it. I wouldn't want to make her choose between her friends, but knowing that he is such a big part of her life is a constant reminder of all the pain he caused me. HELP!!!
2007-01-23 18:52:09 · 5 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If this girl was really your friend she would hate anybody that treated you badly or hurt you. I think she should respect your feelings and do so without you saying anything. A good friend would know better than to do that to. I would be careful though....it sounds like your friend might be interested in him as more than just a friend.
2007-01-23 18:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by dalbana5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Angel, your best friend wasn't the cause of your break with this guy. I say, life is too short to hold grudges and try your best to forgive, forget, and move on. You will always have this history with this guy and obviously you will be running into and hearing news about him occasionally. My ex and his spouse rent from my husband and I and live on the same compound. Let the hurting go and enjoy your life.
2007-01-24 03:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by dino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was truly your best friend then she would know of the pain that he had caused you and she would never have became friends with him. Sounds like you need to scout around for a new best friend because obviously she really isn't the one that it should be.
2007-01-24 02:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel,I guess I would feel the same way as well.I think I would only be concerned if I thought there was a chance of them being involved.If not let it be.It would'nt hurt for you to tell your friend how you feel since you and her are so close.But remember it's not what you say but how you say it.
2007-01-24 02:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control others lives.If she wants to be friends with him,thats absolutely her choice.You should not get disturbed in any way.Past is dead and gone.Dont dread it and dont look back.Think you have learnt a lesson and dont break up with this friend.
2007-01-24 03:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋