My now ex wife was having an affair she was stuck to this jerk like velcro. She was about 2 months into the affair before I divorced her. Its been about 2 months since divorce. While married it was an affair now that we are divorced what would you call there relationship? Is it a rebound or a new relationship? Do these usually last long or do they fall short? Still in love with her but every day getting better.
2007-01-23 17:27:52 · 9 answers · asked by shawclint 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What a bi*ch i detest ladies that cheat on their husbands. Hopefully her relationship doesnt last long. You should forget about that whor* find someone better. Karma will get her.
2007-01-23 18:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by heveansent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a good question
its definately not a rebound because she was with him before your divorce and its not new because again, it was before your divorce
id say they are just a couple now, no specific label at all
whether or not it lasts is really up to them, the fact they are still together after the divorce is a little surprising bc i find most couples cheat for the thrill of getting caught, thats what makes it exciting, the risk
however i highly doubt it will last very much longer, id give it 3 maybe 5 months at most
but whatever happens between her and her new guy, doesnt really concern you, remember you guys are divorced after all
2007-01-24 01:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jessabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't rebound since she got into that before you were divorced but it may be the first in a long string of new relationships. you need to ask yourself though why she got into the affair, whether it was sexual problems at home? Was it something you did or just the way she is? Either way, you deed to figure that out before you get into another relationship or it could be a rebound for you in the next relationship you get into.
2007-01-24 01:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would call it a relationship....maybe...can someone who has cheated on another really be in a good and healthy relationship after cheating on someone? I don't know? Not to be mean (okay, maybe a little) but I hope this guy cheats on her and leaves her and she realizes just what she has done... by then you'll have moved on and when she comes crawling back, you can tell her she's not worth it anymore.
I think you should start focusing on you now and your new life without her.
You are more that what she made you feel.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-24 01:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't focus on her, don't expect her to come running back, sometimes they do sometimes not. but as long as u have your mind on the past u will not be able to move on with yourself. yes we will always love them, and sometimes want them back, but even if they did come home, what than? the relationship is forever changed, can we ever truly forgive it? would we really know if they loved us or if they came back because there was a problem with the new relationship and they just come back to where they knew it was safe. usually the new relationship does fall short, but we may never know it. got to respect yourself, and leave the past where it is, there is always a need for us to know what is going on with their life, but it is best to not seek out info, and not allow that person back, as u never know when they will hurt u again.
2007-01-24 06:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance called things off..we were getting married in 3 days..it happened over night..he told me that he's not in love with me...he's most likely getting back with his ex wife..im devastated..and dont want it to work..everyday is a struggle..so i think i can kinda relate.
In your situation think it's most likely just a sexual relationship. THe attatchment is physical and it will last until one or both of them get tired of it...and feel like they need more.
2007-01-24 02:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Starla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My darlin, move on and don't think about tap dancing backward. If you keep looking to the past you won't see the one for you in the future. Best wishes...
2007-01-24 01:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever it is, it not any of your concern, she with him so you
need to move on. you stated that day are getting better for you
then that what you sh old con crate on. a brighter sun for you
and that the best thing to move on.
2007-01-24 01:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to get better, and dont worry about her relationship.
Thank your lucky stars she's stuck to him, and not you!
2007-01-24 01:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋