While you were in school (any grade do you remember someone always picking on you and it really tore you up inside? Do you still feel the pain from it today? I remember being called godzilla and it tore me apart to this day it still hurts and i will never forget the person who always called me that. I was always getting picked on but this is the one that hurt the most!!!
2007-01-23 17:21:10 · 10 answers · asked by melinda_trvn 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think that you are actually quite good looking, but everyone has been telling you otherwise|
That happens quite often|
Very pretty girls are often given this treatment.
But they are pretty in an innocent way, and the cynical and the power players in a social setting hate that.
That is exactly why they persecute you and people like you.
The thing is, today's standards of beauty are screwed - sorry to be blunt, but that is the truth!
I have seen the most hideous demons being passed off as beauties on TV.
They look absolutely grotesque!
Put an Icon of yourself on Yahoo instead of the impersonal avatar.
I really think that you will be a pleasant person to look at when you do|
But for me, I keep the impersonal avatar for different reasons|
I have to maintain an aura of mystery for the time being|
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2007-01-23 18:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was severely obese until I hit puberty, so my school years are filled with painful memories of name calling. I've since lost the weight, but one memory in particular I have never been able to forget: When I was in the 2nd grade my school decided to make athletics compulsory for all pupils. I was forced to compete in track races - and obviously struggled because of my bulk. To this day I can still picture the kids on the side lines laughing and pointing as I lumbered to the finish line long after the rest of the kids had finished...
2007-01-23 17:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Soren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i did. I got called alot of names, mainly the 'freak' and 'geek' and 'goody two shoes' just because i did my homework and listened to the teacher. It had a huge impact on my life, but once i graduated from high school all that stuff melted away and i know that i was the more mature person in the situation. The bullies dropped out in year 10. And i am now in University, so i think i'm better for it.
2007-01-23 17:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Do you still know of the person now? In my experience i have found that about 90% of the people who were nasty years ago end up being very unsuccessful people with not much to look forward to in their future. For example, I do not know of one "bully" type person from school who has ended up with a successful job.
2007-01-23 17:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont even remember the names anymore - but the hurt is sure there - just a general shame or sense of not being good enough. Sure
2007-01-23 17:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got actual time-commemorated a number of people who have been given to fulfill Tomas Holmstrom and that all of them reported he became the nicest participant they have ever met. in addition they reported he became a rather humorous guy. He ought to have been drained or had a bad day once you adult males have been attempting to get his autograph. yet i comprehend some those that reported Chris Chelios wasnt that dazzling whilst they met him, yet although maybe he became having an off day too.
2016-11-01 03:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
The next-door neighbor kid sang the tag line from a song to let me know what he thought of me.
He was a loser, in addition to being a bully.
He bothered me for a year and that was all. I don't feel bad about it. He showed me how not to treat others.
He lost me as a friend.
2007-01-23 17:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i got called names but to me it was a way of life its kids thing and kids can be cruel,and of cause to this day i still get called names i just ignore it or find a better name to get even
2007-01-23 17:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by meanstreak007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
name callings... yup been there, done that ... and long forgotten about it ^_^ life moves on. when u look back on them u laugh. then names I've been given mostly on whatever that was popular then like templeton (the rat frm charlotte's web) stupid, pig, fatso.... yup but still frenz wif them. no hard feelings. Its just a childish phase ppl go ovr in their lifes.
2007-01-23 17:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , I have.In my school days i used to be bit obese and naturally kids ussed to call me with names.But that thing kinnda worked for me.It promted me to change fatso body into good muscular one.
2007-01-23 18:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋