Age old question. Did you have an affair and it cost you your marriage? Was it worth it? Was the grass greener or was it brown? Do you now wish that you watered your own yard? My now exwife is about 3 months into her affair turned relationship.
2007-01-23 17:20:13 · 10 answers · asked by shawclint 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The grass is not greener. It only leads to confusion, heartache, and helplessness. It can and most often causes a divorce. If not, it hurts the marriage relationship for years to come. A couple can get over it but nothing is ever the same. Marriage is for keeps but if fornicated, it is grounds for divorce. It is up to the individuals. If you can work it out and regain trust in the fornicator, then it may be worth saving the marriage. Everyone makes mistakes and two wrongs don't make a right. Maybe your wife wasn't meant to be yours. Unfaithfulness is of Satan. It's probably a sexual thing which she will someday regret. Take care and God bless...
2007-01-23 17:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by freedomrings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sometimes the grass IS indeed greener. Very lush.
But, you can't have everything.
We experiemented with an "open relationship" for a couple years. Everything we did was by mutual agreement.
It is possible to meet and have relations with other people who are very exciting, desirable, satisfying, etc.
But as I said, it's only temporary. You can't have everything.
2007-01-24 00:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the grass is definitely greener, my yard is brown, but my neighbor always waters his grass, the bum won't let me have a cookout in his yard, i should just steal all his grass or something
2007-01-23 17:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It gets no greener .
2007-01-23 17:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
havent been in your situation but i think it always turns out that way....you end up with the same problems from the first relationship...and you cant just skip from relationship to relationship..too confusing...
2007-01-23 17:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is worth losing my family.
2007-01-23 17:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know...cause i have never crossed the fence to try other grass....i would guess the answer is yes and no.....
2007-01-23 17:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not greener, you just become colorblind for a while!
2007-01-23 18:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope still happily married never cheated before so i dont know
2007-01-23 17:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Christine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never tried and i wont
2007-01-23 17:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋