I have seen pretty young girls. Almost all of them are changed after marriage and become a risk full charector. Why this change in their attitude suddenly. How can we judge them. What is the psycology change takes plac after marriage?
2007-01-23 17:10:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I personally feel that the question is a real life question and reflects to your life, I would prefer you to sit in front of the mirror every evening and say the following:
"What have I been upto today, did I show my wife the full respect that she deserves, did I say the same words to her when she was not married to me, like I love you Etc. Basically the fault lies with both partners, not appreciating each other for what they are."
Live in a real World and accept that all humans have feelings and needs and you will be happy after that.
2007-01-23 17:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that this question comes from a man. Girls aren't innocent we have lived under the shadow of our father wings and wishes, his love and protection and until he give us the go ahead we remain calm and innocent. However, when the day comes and the door is swings open and we are told to fly we let loose with all we've got and the world finally see us as we truly are, cherished, loved, adored and quietly raised until we are given permission to take on the world, accomplish our dreams, use our gifts and then look out because here we come and their isn't anyone stopping us now.
2007-01-23 17:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Yarborough51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is girls are thinking about their marriage is very highly. After marriage they are thinking "this is marriage". All ladies are innocent type before marriage because they want good boys. The poor boys fell down in big well after marriage. The innocent girls are very cruel type after marriage the main reason is inadequancy of education of girls less than boys.
2007-01-23 18:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls lose their girlhood and are forced to accept the responsibility of caring for a husband , his family and any children. Necessity dictates a change.
This is either a good experience or a bad one.
Wild, risk-taking behavior probably signifies defiance.
2007-01-23 17:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know that that is necessarily a true statement, but I will say this - Most women marry young, so as they age they become more comfortable in their own skin. More confident. I don't think that it has anything to do with marriage though.
2007-01-23 17:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage u come to know a girl more closely and ofcourse negative side also.Beside it a girl has to change herself according to husband and family and her new role,life even for so small things which man even can't imagine which make her furious and frustated.
2007-01-23 17:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Shyam the possibility is their new found freedom and initiation for many of them to sex.... some become quite docile but others become wild and they start craving for more..
But then what is the actual reason you and i may never find out unless a newly married woman comments to your Q
2007-01-23 17:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sudden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unsatisfied expectations are the main cause for the misbehaviour. Each one will be having their own expectations and to be houred mainly by the husband and by the inlaws. If this is not met, then the females are disturmed and behave abnormally.
2007-01-23 17:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Meena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's true, girls look innocent before marriage and wild after that. because before marriaage they live their life according their own life style. but after marriage they live according to their in-laws. secondly atmosphere changes. if after marriage atmospher is not according to them, then they feel bad and become wild. they feel a lot of ristriction after marriage.
2007-01-23 17:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is adapting to new people and surroundings.
logically it depends upon the company/person a girl/boy gets married to. most often it is seen that a innocent and calm friendly girl getting married to an witty,angry guy acquires those charismatics.
so, according to me it is the companion-ship a person is with. if a person is with friendly peoples then , that person mostly probably would be happy and friendly and if a person keeps company of dull,boring, witty peoples then that person most naturally would acquire those qualities .............
2007-01-23 17:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by MARSHAL D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋