my husband and i have problems like everyone esle....but lately ive been wondering if he even loves me at all anymore,there r so many reason why i wonder .one resent exeample is ...last weak my doctor told me i needed to be on meds,i have really BADstomach infection and its going to cost alot of money.my husband said we dont have the money for it .well the other day we get home and the cable turned off so he calls and ask how much its going to cost,they told him at least put down 200.00 so he does.what do you think?plzz help!
2007-01-23 17:03:21 · 18 answers · asked by cindagirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thxs everyone .
2007-01-23 17:24:31 · update #1
That's not cool at all. Call him out on it. Your health should be one of his main concerns, especially over the cable.
2007-01-23 17:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky Mesmer 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say but I think you already know the answer to your question. I actually needed a surgery that my insurance wouldn't cover and the surgery was more than we could afford. My fiance picked up another part time job on the weekend and even raised money by planning and coordinating bingo and a local fair to raise money. I was able to have the surgery and he was right by my side through the entire thing. And it was just the opposite of you...he turned the cable off (got rid of his football sports package) and did everything he could to save money. Good luck hun!
2007-01-24 01:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to report him for spousal abuse. I guess his football and movies is more inportant than your health. If I were you I'd make sure that there was no food and beer in the house and when he asked why I'd tell what goes around comes around, and if he had anything more to say about it I'd leave and let him figure out why. I'd also empty the bank account on my way. What an idiot he is. He's not concerned about you at all. Your health would be my first and only concern; everything else would take back seat to my wife and lover..
2007-01-24 01:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by denfasr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh. Well, I think that is bad.
I think that you just talk to your doctor, see what can be done (sometimes they have ways esp if you've no insurance) and you take care of your tummy. Then you take your husband to counseling, right after you cut every cable line in the house...but really, I think a healed stomach and a rotten divorce are coming your way.
2007-01-24 01:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by steelypen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all sorry that happen to you and I hope you get what you need to heal. Secondly, I believe you need to reflect on your relationship with him. Ask yourself "if this was a friends situation, what would I tell her to do". Start reflecting on every account of your marriage to see if there where more situations like this one. I believe after reflecting that you would know what to do. And lets stop relying on a man to help us. Prepare yourself financially! Whether it's opening savings account, investing in IRA or starting a small business. You really have to look out for yourself. I believe in oneness but you have to be in charge of your own self. (especially when it comes to you health). Again really look at your marriage. Sending you a big hug!
2007-01-24 01:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you give him the stomach infection? (Just kidding).
You didn't state how much your doctor's visit, meds, etc. will cost.
Is there a free clinic near you somewhere. You cannot go on with an infection with the proper meds.
2007-01-24 01:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does love you just not as Romatic he should be,,also he or you should buy the health insurance, it is very important, he also not understand the health issue, and he didn't think you are in any immediatly critical condiition, than he think his cable is critical important to him, so he spent 200 dollers to fix it
2007-01-24 01:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by hsiaofonglin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is not contract like cable connection that you rarely have problems.but marriage s parallel line of track you may have problems you should considered to be a small shake in Ride but that journey may stop some were it should not end any were.
2007-01-24 01:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by shanker mother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl his priorities are not favoring you I'm afraid.
If you're married, that money is half yours and you should have insisted on having a say so in where it was spent.
Assert yourself!
BTW... there's a program called PPA (Montel William's Gig)
Partnership prescription assistance, go on line, see if you qualify for assistance for your meds.
I'd dump the Loser!
2007-01-24 01:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to get his priorities straight. You need medicine before he needs cable. This is insane. Stand up for yourself, go get your medication.
2007-01-24 01:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋