I'm confused that i'm Gay or not i just have these tendercys of havin these feelings for guys i look at. And my sister and family calls me Gay . What should i do .
2007-01-23 17:03:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are gay if you believe you are. Do not let anybody change that. It is quite normal, and something to be proud of. As for coming out, I am not an expert at that. I am gay, I want to come out, but the problem is, I don't know how to say it. "Mom, dad, I'm gay" I dunno, I tried saying that in the mirror, but never had the courage to say that in front of my parents. Try telling somebody close to you, somebody who would understand, and wouldn't mind you being gay.
After that, you can start telling more people, but make sure that you are the one letting your parents know that you're gay. It would be pretty nasty if someone else told your parents, or they somehow found out themselves. I hope this built up your confidence.
-Nickilicious<3
2007-01-23 17:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Nickilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder you are confused, all these people calling you gay. Take your time, decide for yourself. Curiosity of the opposite AND same sex is typical in teens. You are very normal.
2007-01-23 17:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a big showing at a holiday family event and enter the common area with a big pink boa on and announce who you really are.
2007-01-23 17:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Beachman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
live life and dont question your desires. confront family and sister about being called gay- if it bothers you. have them stop at once. theyre family and should treat you like family... not like an outsider worth being made fun of... you should tell them that.
2007-01-23 17:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋