How do u tell someone that you are willing to give your all to, that you want to be with them, but if they screw up one time, you dont even want to be friends with him?? I need a nicer way to put it because he will get mad if he thinks I'm being rude... PLEASE HELP! thanks
2007-01-23 16:39:27 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Something like, "I really want to do anything to be with you, but it's hard for me to accept any more mistakes."
Or, "I really want to give my all for you, but I'm afraid that I'll be 'hurt'"
2007-01-23 16:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Random G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have a serous conversation with him that you would do anything to be with him, but it's hard at times to accept anymore mistakes. Then you ask him what he wants out of the relationship and if he wants the same thing you do, then you can built on that....but if he doesn't want to change for you and wants to stay the same and wants you to baby him like his mother did then I would really look at what your really gaining by staying in this relationship cuz if a man doesn't want to change to make it work then he's not worth you time!!!
2007-01-24 12:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just let the person noe that if he ever screws up then tht u guys are over. but u shudnt be too serious cus u mite scare him away and u dont want to do dat .
2007-01-24 14:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should not have to put a nicer way if some one gets mad about the way you say thing then thaer orobly not a real freind or your writ and the truth hruts is why people get mad half the time donluvsdorothea my email
2007-01-24 00:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well, u got to realize he is just a human , born to make mistakes.
Tell him to be honest with you on all matters.
2007-01-24 09:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋