alright... so. currently i'm a girl in high school. for maybe the past year or so people (even my close-ish friends) have cracked jokes about me being secretly lesbian. i always considered myself to be straight, but since they started those jokes, i kind of wonder if i'm bi or if they're right. i've never been in any relationships and i don't think i know how it feels to be attracted to anyone. i know when i think people are hot and when i admire them for their personality, but it seems like i'm having issues distinguishing between those two: attraction and admiration. so anyway, when my friends joke about me, i can't necessarily argue because i have no experience. what do you think?
2007-01-23 16:01:10 · 8 answers · asked by {fiyerae}rox.my.world. 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you're friends stink. I think you should back away from them and go off on your own. You are obviously articulate and you don't need these so called friends bogging you down with their petty thoughts. If you still worry talk to your parents and I know they will agree with me. You are so much better than a gossipy backstabber to pay attention to what the dirt they deal you. Go with your heart and distance yourself from the clique. In the long run you will know what is right for you.
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2016-12-02 23:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by schiavone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let your friends influence your decision making process. it took me 33 years to realize i was bi.. and you know that attraction vs admiration thing really struck me.. i really do "admire" women, so much that i was never comfortable dating them because i felt unworthy.. i've since realized i want to become a woman myself, and that this will be the only way i will feel comfortable dating them.. yes, i know this sounds totally weird.
but before i do anything crazy, i am gonna try dating men just to see what it is like.
you never need to rush into labelling yourself. just keep hanging out with friends.. and go on dates if you are asked out.. dates can be fun, they don't have to lead to sex or anything like that..
also, you are like me, you appreciate people for attitudes and personalities, not looks.. and that is good. this way, you will know that you are finding the right kind of people for you.
anyway, if your curious to read more on bisexuality, check out the community at bisexual.com you have to sign up but it's free. that site has helped me so much since officially recognizing my bisexuality 6 weeks ago.. hope to see you there!
Jeff
2007-01-23 17:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time. There is no rush and no need to accept what others say if it is not in your own heart.
Either way it sounds like your friends would still be there for you.
Best wishes.
2007-01-23 16:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by chuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, please don't rush into anything just because of what your friends say! You'll figure it out when you're good and ready to. You have so much time ahead of you still - enjoy being young while you still can.
2007-01-23 16:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just give this part of yourself time and you'll eventually probably figure it out.
2007-01-23 23:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll become clear with time.. expierences can only tell.. your still young you have soooo much time.. don't rush it
2007-01-23 16:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Betsy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you're bi
2007-01-23 17:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋