Um...this is really, really hard for me to say but I'm pretty much bi...or bicurious. I don't know! I'm so lost and confused right now and I don't know what to do! A part of me wants to run away and hide but the other part of me wants to run up to every girl in the entire world and proclaim my love but I'm so scared. I mean, I'm not a lesbian by any means. I'm completely in love with a guy, no I'm not just saying that, but I'm head over heels in love but sometimes I get these...urges? I don't know, I'm really confused at the moment. Help?
2007-01-23 15:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by silence_within_chaos 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off - relax and take a deep breath. Being bi / bi-curious is perfectly normal, and is something that is far more common than most would admit and is something that is found all over the planet, even in nature. There is nothing wrong with experiencing attraction for both genders, all it means is that you find something attractive in both and that as your moods change you become more attracted to one over the other.
2007-01-23 20:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sabrina S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow if you already have a guy yet you desire a woman, then you are bi for sure.. you might even fall into the poly catagoy (someone who can't be happy unless they have one of each concurrently)
come to bisexual.com and read the community. lots of us on there sharing stories about confusions, experiences, coming out, how to ask our loved one for permission to experiment etc.. i only accepted my bisexuality 6 weeks ago, so i too and new, scared, and confused.. in fact i have my first same sex date tomorrow and i am really nervous! but yah, come check the site out.. the people there have helped me so much!
Jeff
2007-01-23 17:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Binding yourself to societal norms will cause an inverted balance in your persona. Never change who you are and anyone you are with will understand if you want to try something out of the "norm." You are not weird or different, you are in a place where exploration is key to advancement.
2007-01-23 16:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by UrMomgoes2college 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am so in the same position.. just dont know howto express it.. i have been with the same guy for 6 years.. but i fantasize about being with a woman..
2007-01-23 16:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Betsy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has fantasies of sexual exploration. some act on them, some never quite get up the courage. at any rate i think it is normal to be curious.
2007-01-23 15:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lmfao, will it kill you to let them think that you likes girls?
who do you care? Show them the love =)
2007-01-23 15:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just accept that you're bi then you wont feel worry or confuse anymore, simple! ;)
2007-01-23 17:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋