I'm 20 and have been sexually active for about 4 years now. Just recently, I dry out so quickly after only about 10 minutes of sex. It's obvious that this makes things painful for me, and it's making my b/f very frustrated. I know I'll probably get answers telling me to get some lube; but I don't want to. I want to know what I'm doing wrong, if anything, and why this is happening.
2007-01-23 15:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsay 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
A few of you asked about my medications. Yes, I'm on birth control..Yasmin to be exact. And also, I'm on 20mg of Adderall a day. Thanks for your input, you guys! I'm glad people can talk seriously to me about this!
2007-01-24 07:01:36 · update #1
are you on any form of bc?
something similar happened to me..
it was wen i started taking the pill
but it went away
if it doesnt maybe you should go 4 a check up
2007-01-23 15:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A common problem, and when you get ten years older you won't need to worry about more than ten minutes. You don't want to hear it it but "get the lube for now"
r u enjoying it? or is it just "going through the motions?
sounds like your b/f could use a little more consideration and not to be gross but just frankly speaking - look at some porn, you see people spitting and what not to hieghten the moment, maybe suggest it to him, he had to feel it.
On a side note: after looking at your pic. I could show you a couple other tricks if you live close to MIch.
2007-01-23 23:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by notmine4268 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think are doing anything wrong. It could be that you are not that aroused. Keep in mind that you are only twenty and your body will go through changes. As you get older (around 24) you will reach you sexual peak. I know you said that you don't want to use lube maybe you and your partner should trying taking more time and have him focus on pleasing you.
2007-01-23 23:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not doing anything wrong and there is nothing wrong with lube. Women go through this from time to time. Drink lots of water and see how things go in a few days.
2007-01-23 23:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on any type of medication? If you are, see if one of the side effects is drying of mucous membranes. Whether you want to or not, you probably are going to have to go the lube route.
2007-01-23 23:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm im a guy so i know only so much about a females reproductive organs but i would suggest, dont have sex like every 15 mins lol
maybe its a change in your diet or hormones, i wouldnt get worried its not like your gunna die, but if i were a girl and you, i would go to a gyno.
2007-01-23 23:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by ifucouldbeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your birtholin gland is not functioning properly. May be due to harmonal embalance or your pre coital play is short so you might not getting strong excitement.
2007-01-23 23:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Arun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl...i wish i could help you i have the same problem, am 24. the only thing is to go see your dr. and have a hormonal count.
2007-01-23 23:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by .:peAchy:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been checked for chlamydia? My friend had it and didn't know and she has a hard time staying well lubricated now.
2007-01-23 23:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋