today i got sent to the office again in skool, and the vp gave me another write up.so i have d hall tomorrow and my mom already has seen like 2 write ups in the past 5 days. should i just forge this one myslef, i got caught forging last week, but this is like the 3rd write up in a week. should i just forge it so she dosn't have to see this one.
2007-01-23 15:38:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hi, it's Lori. I wouldn't worry it about too much, Emawee. I collect write ups at school just like they were candy and scrunchies. Don't trouble your mom and just get someone else to forge it. Eventually they'll call her but oh well. Just tell her you forgot. My daddy works hard to spoil me and I hate to upset him or stress him out, you know.
Since we're in Texas, I find it's often acceptable to just fake an accent and tell them you don't speak English.
2007-01-23 15:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's a little story to think about--this happened to me in 5th grade:
Every week during that year, I would forget to do homework (what kid dosen't??), and , it never failed: 3 misses=DETENTION! So, on Fridays, I always got the pink slip. Well, the rents had already seen 1, and said "don't get another", so, I always took and secretly tore the pinkie up under the desk. Well, come detention day, I snuck out the side door, and headed home (which I walked). Thought I had got away with it, too! Wrongo!! I got caught by year's end, and, after being given the riot act, was given a choice: 3 weeks worth of detentions, or 3 days suspension. I suffered in silence, and took the 3 weeks detention. It was close to finals--what choice did I have?
Well--I tell you this to show you that, had I been honest in the first place, I wouldn't have been in the mess I made for myself (true, I wouldn't be much good at sitting for some time--rents were firm believers in spanking), and, it still holds true today: Be Honest! Your Mom might be miffed at you, even po'd, but, if you forge this write-up, it will only make things worse in the long run.
2007-01-23 20:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forge it. Did you ever resolve anything with your mom? three write ups in five days is alot. I really hope you are talking to a school counselor. It sounds like your mom, of course I don't know the whole story, is not ready to accept the situation. Maybe a school counselor can help you get back on track with school and depression. Don't be sad about your mom's reaction to you, she doesn't know how or what to do. Now that you have told her it's her responsibility to help you. A school counselor will take you very seriously and talk some sense into your mother.
2007-01-24 08:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by jc2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... try your best not to get in trouble and this wont happen anymore!
Next, the truth is always better. So show your mom...she will find out somehow she is a mom! I would rather her know than me keep it from her knowing she will find out sooner or later.
Plus, forging is never the answer. The school has all your parents signatures and they know what it looks like. They aren't dumb they will find out. If they didn't notice then all kids would be forging their parents signature and no one would get in trouble.
So, tell your mom. In the end you will know you did the right thing..trust me.
~Hugz
2007-01-23 15:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seeing that you already got caught, you might want to wait a while before you forge again. Just tell your mom. It'll be hard, but there are just some things that you have to do.
2007-01-23 22:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You don't need to start lying in addition to whatever other problems you are having at school. You need to accept the punishment and concentrate on making anhonest effort to change your behavior at school. You are going to have to comply with rules all your life. Yes,it can be a pain but that is the way it is. You need to get your frustrations out in another way other than breaking rules and getting yourself into trouble. Make peace with reality. Otherwise you will struggle through your entire life.Choose your battles and make choices that will benefit you in the end. Good luck. You will feel better about you as a person if you are honest. If you lie you will be angry at everyone else and hate yourself.
2007-01-24 01:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by gem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need some help. Do NOT forge anyone's signature!
You need to discover why you're behaving this way and straighten yourself up.
Do NOT try to hide things from your parents - remember, the school does have your parent's work phone numbers.
2007-01-23 18:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it cause school have the technology to figure out if it's forged so i say you dont forge and you get your punishment it wont be that bad you could be expelled for too many write ups/
2007-01-23 23:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mrs.SweetLove♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forging is about the dumbest thing you can do. You'll get caught, and be in even more trouble. But hey. If that's cool with you, knock yourself out.
2007-01-23 16:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by Annamarie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR DO NOT DO THAT I GOT CULT DOING THAT TO WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL AND MY MOTHER WAS NOT ETHER I GOT A SPANKING I HAD 29 WHY I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL IN 1991 BEFORE I GRADUATED THE VP GOT TIRED OF SEEING ME SO HE JUST PUT ME TO WORK IN HIS OFFICE TO DUE BOOK WORK ALONG WITH A REALLY PADDLING THE WAY HE WHIPPED WAS THE LEFT CHECK THE RIGHT CHECK AND THEN IN THE MIDDLE 3 TIME AND THEN OFFERED YOU A SEAT BUT MY JR AND SR WAS BETTER I WAS NOT GETTING IN TROUBLE ANY MORE TAKE YOU LICKS AND GO IN SCHOOL SUSPENSION YOU GOT F FOR ALL YOUR CLASSES GOOD LUCK
2007-01-23 16:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋