I am a boy, my girl friend always wants to get another girl with us when we get naked and get on top of each other, the first time she asked about to do this i thought it would be fun so i went with it. But now she is giving more lover to her then me, but i think i would feel bad if i stick it to the other girl....i need help!!! what would you do?
2007-01-23 15:15:47 · 21 answers · asked by walkerschool101 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Talk to your girl about it before you "stick it to the other girl",make sure your girlfriend lets you know what your limits are!!But hey your still getting a better deal then most men..enjoy it!
2007-01-23 15:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, theres a radio show called Loveline in which people call for help with sexual issues. Every time someone called in with a problem like this, the doctor (well known Dr. Drew) told them to stay away from it because it will likely ruin the relationship....on the other hand this is something that wont happen to you everyday, If you really want to try and take this relationship longterm, Id recommend just letting her know you're not comfortable with it. But if you really enjoyed the experience maybe you should give it another shot.
It's your call chief
2007-01-23 15:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by bravestdawg101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I dont care if you are a boy or a girl, if you are uncomfortable with the things your partner wants you to do then that is your inner self telling you not to do it. I know the typical man says he would love to have two women on him but i dont think that is true. It sounds like you care for your girlfriend and her paying the other girl more attention hurts you emotionally. Try talking to her about it. Maybe it is a phase of her sexual exploration. If she really cares for you and is worth keeping, she wont want to hurt you and make you feel uncomfortable. If she freaks and gets all in your face about it then she isnt worth your time or trouble. Plus you dont want to catch anything from her and all the people she has slept with or the other girl and all the people she has slept with and they have slept with and so on. Be safe and find out if she really wants you or just a life size dildo.
2007-01-23 15:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend has brought the other girl into the mix not you. If she can enjoy the company of the third person so should you. If she does not believe that, then she does not need you. Plus, how does the other girl feel about all this. Is she straight lesbian or bi. This all makes a jumbled mess, but I would at least make sure to enjoy myself, and if the girlfriend gets jealous, then she will then have learned the problem of making it a threesome.
2007-01-23 15:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesomes work only if you talk about everyone's expectations first. She may be into girls more and you're there mostly for support. There are so many scenarios that getting a kind of game plan first works best. Watch some porn together to get some ideas. And have fun.
2007-01-23 15:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Brittanyskye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal for a guy to think it would be cool to do this. What I would do is talk to your girlfriend and tell her how you feel. Tell her you want her and just her. If you do that you have to be sure you are ready to accept it if she wants the girl more. There are lots of girls out there that are not BI-SEXUAL and will make you happy. Or do you want to do this and stick it in the other girl. In that case you need to talk about that with your girlfriend. Either way the best thing is to make yourself happy. A friend of mine did this same thing and the trust left the relationship with him and his wife and they divorced. You have to decide what you want and stand your ground!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You are worth it, I promise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-23 15:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by azgrmadonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to determine what it is that you want from this relationship. If it's sexual experimentation with little or no emotional content, you're probably in the right place & with the right person. TALK to your 'girlfriend' and see what she's looking for out of this. See if you're interested in the same things both in and out of the sexual encounters. As to DURING the sexual encounters...first, be safe. Second, ASK for what you want, and ASK what they want done with/to them. If the answers you give and get are good...then have fun. If not, then say, "Thanks, but I've got to go." It's really that easy.
2007-01-23 15:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chainsaw is normally wrong on everything he says, but in this case his second sentence is accurate. Stop this nonsense if you want the relationship to last. If your girlfriend is truly a lesbian than she'll leave you for the girl anyway and better to get rid of her now so you can begin our search for a new partner.
2007-01-23 15:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by dscottc1989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get comfortable with being a single guy - you definitely don't have a close and intimate relationship with this girl if you can't talk about this sexual issue - especially in light of the fact that "sticking it to the other girl" is something you're thinking about
2007-01-23 15:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by jourdepaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she gives more attention to the girl to get you off or maybe she is into girls.
the best thing to do if you want to "stick it" to the other girl is ask her because if you just do it you might deal with consequences later.
2007-01-23 15:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Motivation.Inspiration 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋