And don't say get help because that costs money. Duh.
2007-01-23 15:10:32 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
TURN TO OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST!!!
AND THERES NO CHARGE!!!
2007-01-23 15:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
It sounds like you really want your life to be different than it is. And you can change it. It's up to you. Of course the job market is hard right now, but if you can't find a job take some classes at least, and you'll be working on something. I'm sure you're not ugly. You just need some exercises and to make some better choices with foods- fruit, whole grains etc. Don't worry about finding a mate right now- this is the time in your life to find yourself. I wish you the best.
2016-05-24 02:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to do in such a situation is to believe in yourself and in whichever God you look up to.
Indians have this philosophy - they believe that a person only has a duty to do an action that they feel is right in the given circumstances, but that they do not have a right to the fruits of that action. However, the action must be "good", in the sense that it should NOT knowlingly hurt anyone in any way. Only God can decide on the fruits of your actions. It sounds escapist, but it is kinda effective.
I would suggest that you look enegertically for an alternate employment, and then give it all you've got. Tht way, you will feel involved, and you will find a way out of the depressing thoughts that trouble you. Remember, everyone has problems, but all those problems have already been faced by others and we need to learn from the experiences of people who have been there before us.
2007-01-23 15:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by RaviAsrani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all burn out at some point in our lives. If we're not alone, or broke, or any of those other things, it's easier to find our way back because there's someone there to help us. But we're never really alone--there is a higher power who watches over us and will always listen. Sometimes the answers we get just aren't what we want to hear. God never gives us a mountain that we can't climb. But, you have to help yourself, too. Find some counseling--yes, it is out there and free. Try your county mental health services. While you're there, check out the employment services they offer--job placement and/or job training. Find a support group and get involved--you'll meet people with problems, maybe some worse than yours, and maybe make some friends and gain some insight. Life isn't always easy, but it's also too good to give up on. Good luck to you.
2007-01-23 15:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Janemary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep looking for work it will happen soon enough the economy is not that good right now anywhere. word of mouth is a good way to find a job to.talk to some like a teacher,priest, (etc) or call a crisis center hot line. surely theres some type of free resources in your community.maybe your suffering from depression. check around for some help .In the mean time keep your head up if its really as bad as it can get than it can only get better now .
2007-01-23 15:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by hot choclate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend you go to Church. A non-denomonational Christian one that could help you by Free counseling and encouragement. My life was worse off then you could believe but the Lord delievered me and has taken all those problems away. You will never be alone, you will never be broke and He will give you the strength to not be burned out in life. As for the unemployment that is up to you. Take care.
2007-01-23 15:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by cdoggy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your only unemployed by choice.Once you get a job things will turn out. you won't be broke, alone or unemployed and you may find a new outlook on life. When things aren't going your way it's up to you to change the way it's going.
2007-01-23 16:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by sunnysky4u 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Find a job and stick with it no matter what. also plan a trip to somewhere exotic, and save up money from each paycheck to get there. That way you are working towards a goal and not just working to survive.
2007-01-23 15:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sammer (Jim W) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now they are some options. give up on life. Find something to fil lthe emptyness. Or take it all in stride, and get back on track. but if you lose all hope in yourself, then you lost hope with life.don't let it get you down. your not the only one who may feel that way. Not all is lost. Unless you let it take control over your life.
2007-01-23 15:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like my son, are you a teenager? he's hatin' life and I think this is the easy part! well, the only thing I can tell you is that you are never alone. Jesus loves you and wants to know you better, so you can begin by talking to Him - he's a great listener.
2007-01-23 15:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by Forever 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Invest in a quality box,
the type that can serve as a dining room, kitchen and bathroom
2007-01-23 15:25:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋