2007-01-23 15:07:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most definitely not. That is why we have pushovers, alcoholics, and Britney Spears. Asserting yourself can be a postively daunting challenge, but something you can work to improve. It might take a leap of faith sometimes to see that everything can work out just fine if you know when to say "when."
Best of luck. My best advice is to talk to some other people who are confident, who are in strong control of themselves, and who always strive to deal with others in a positive manner.
2007-01-23 15:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bach_Omega 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you on that one. No matter what it is if people need there shifts covered at work or something with school I feel bad for saying what I want to say which is "NO". I think it makes me seem like a mean person.Which I don't think I am. I mean look at me sitting here trying to defend myself. But yes I agree with the no part:)
2007-01-23 23:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by sunnysky4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sould not have a hard time sayimg no i used to but i find out that people only used you so it come very easy for me if i do not want to do it i jast say no and go on noing i did not do any thing wrong so go right a head and say no.
2007-01-23 23:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by cynthia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weak willed people always have a hard time saying no
2007-01-23 23:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you go to bed with me? I have herpes, sh*t my pants, and am a guy that is 68 years old?
If you say 'no' guess you don't have such a hard time saying it.
2007-01-23 23:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I mean I'm the type of person who always wants to please everyone. So I constently say yes to people just to make them happy.
2007-01-23 23:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i use to be like that too. But i learned how to stand my ground and simply say no
2007-01-23 23:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying no can be hard at times....
2007-01-23 23:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by Just Wondering 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.....we say yes to not hurt someone else feelings and we don't worry about-our own at times....
2007-01-23 23:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by iloeta1164 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me ,you are not alone in this. i have been that way all my life. i would rather do something i hate to do rather than tell someone no.
2007-01-23 23:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋