I get really turned on when I see another attractive female.. Would you consider me gay?
2007-01-23 14:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by bonita_h2001 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Does it matter, as long as your a loving, caring, happy person. Gay , lesbian, straight, bi are all just lables for those who dont know us. Be yourself, be happy.
2007-01-23 14:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by gimlost2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know if you're gay. Being stimulated by the sight of someone who is of the same gender as you might be a hint but its not the end-all. I'm gay but I can appreciate a handsome man even if I'd never sleep with him.
The only difficulty in realizing you're gay is that you're accepting you're not what you were likely taught and assumed to be. That's no one's fault.. but it does mean you have to do some introspection at some point and everyone's level of immediate acceptance of themselves is different. The real question you should ask yourself, though, isn't "What am I attracted to?"
The real question is, "Who do I want to spend my life with?" Being gay isn't just a matter of attraction. Its not a decision about who you're going to sleep with. Its a decision about your entire life... who do you want to be in love with. At the most basic level, is that person male or female? Or does that even matter?
Too many people think homosexuality is all about sex. That deeply ingrained misunderstanding is probably the source of almost all of the scorn and abuse that homosexuals have had to endure throughout modern history.
Trust me...its not about sex.
2007-01-23 14:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by gooniekim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you consider yourself "gay" and what does that mean to you? I think you should be more concerned about questions like: am I being honest with myself and do I have a good rapport and trust with the people close to me to be able to discuss and explore my questions and feelings about my sexuality? If not, where can I go to get community to get comfortable about talking about it.
2007-01-23 14:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by jourdepaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's the question u really need to ask urself... would eating out another female (a.) turn u on -or- (b.) creep u out. So u tell me.
2007-01-23 22:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by if i only knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, test the waters. See what you enjoy. Live life.
2007-01-23 14:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by Aub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're questioning it..then..probably a hint of gay...haha i am the same way but i wouldnt consider myself gay
2007-01-23 14:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Amandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you like guys the same way?
Or do you just think girls are attractive?
You could be either bi or lesbian?
2007-01-23 14:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are your own person and only you will truly know if your gay or not.
2007-01-23 14:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by traven_blood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually you are gay if you consider whether you are gay or not
2007-01-23 15:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by whoknows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. :)
2007-01-23 14:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by aimeramy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋