look many of u tought it was cruel, and said "give it up for adoption."to those who didnt judge THANK YOU.but look we are overpopulated,and y have it.there are so many other kids in foster homes looking for a home and no one wants them.so y make the child suffer,besides how things are going in this world, the child wil not have a happy life.there is soo much lying,injustice,for those of u that decide to be parents,good for u.but my chice is personal.and its not a for sure thing, i always use protection!!but u never know wat can happen.and if i was to get pregnant,well i know wat i have to do.
2007-01-23 14:29:33 · 20 answers · asked by itzli b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
its mean to give the baby up but its NOT mean to kill the baby. Explain that. you dont know that the baby would not be happy. Just because your depressed (you have to be to feel the way you do) doesn't mean that this child would grow up and live a **** life. Babies are miracles each and every one of them. NO ONE HAS A RIGHT TO KILL A BABY.
some wrote that you dont have to tell the father thats bull crap the father has every right to know. the women should be forced to ask the father if he wants the child if he does. She by law should have to go thought the pregnancy. she should be forced to anyway but more so if the father wants the child. Just because it grows in women does mean she should be the one making the choice if the baby get to live or not?
2007-01-23 14:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you put it up for adoption, it will not end up in a foster home, that is less likely than with natural parents, cause these people want to be parents and they check them out first. You are just trying to come up with reasons to justify doing what you want to do. Here is the problem that I have. You say the world is over populated, that does not mean that getting an abortion is the responsible thing, it means you not getting pregnant is the responsible thing. I am so sick of every one talking about choice. Most woman do have a choice, they chose to have sex. I don't care if you use protection, you still know what can happen. Only 1% of abortions are a result of incest or rape. I don't understand how people justify killing a child for thier own convenience. How selfish is that.
2007-01-23 15:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess since so many people thought they would tell you their opinion, I will too. Would you let a full grown adult live on your body 24 seven for almost a year? No! Why? Because they are capable of sustaining their own existence! A 6 week pregnancy is like a parasite, totally dependent, cannot survive on its own. Therefore it is part of your body, and yours to do with as you choose! Your reasons are your own, you don't have to explain to ANYONE what you do with your body or why! You set yourself up here to be picked clean by a bunch of vultures. I am sorry there are so many narrow minded people in this world who would pick on someone that is going through such a difficult thing.
2007-01-23 19:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Robin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have every right to decide what is best for you. People are always going to try and judge you. Look most people who say mean and cruel things are the same ones trying to end welfare cause they don't want to pay it, and also they are the ones telling the government not to let homosexual or even single people from adopting. Do what is right for you, because you are the person who has to deal with the outcome. You don't need our yes or no, because we aren't going to pay your bills or even offer to help. Good luck and stay strong.
2007-01-23 14:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
People should have a choice!! If someone got raped and became pregnant, and did not have the maturity or means to support the baby, would you take her rights to get an abortion away from her because of something that wasn't even her fault?! People should think about these things before they judge people.
2007-01-23 14:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ballerina♥ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I believe that we are here to make choice's, life is a test God has given us. So I believe you are a free agent to make choice's, even when they are terrible ones. I also believe that abortion is wrong and you are taking away a gift God has given to someone else. I wouldn't want to have to explain that one to the big man someday or the child I aborted.
2007-01-23 14:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by pearl28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I understand what u r saying, but as a mom who has burried 2 infant sons---I can say that adoption would be a more thoughtful choice. some people cant have babies and u could make their lives complete. also if u did get an abortion it may haunt you emotionally later...
2007-01-23 14:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it is a personal choice. God gave you the freedom of will to make your own choices.
Why did you ask this question IN A PUBLIC FORUM?
If you didn't want people's answers and opinions, you should have thought about that before asking.
Oh yeah, you have proven you don't have much forethought.
2007-01-23 14:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jenna1006 you ought to shut your mouth how dare you say that to someone! That is mean you are not her and so what she knew she was going to get abuse when she posted that but that was dumb,mean, and pointless. You just said you hoped someone was dead. Hate to break it to you sister but NO fetuses don't have feelings yet there bloobs, maybe you are the one who is sick now I would never abort unless i would die but that was mean and unnecessay. Think about it.
2007-01-23 14:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by perpetaully sarcastic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is your decision. If the father doesn't know, then don't ever tell him. It is personal and you need to keep it that way. If you need to discuss it after the abortion, get a therapist. Don't tell the father. I say that as a guy because if my girlfriend was pregnant, I don't know if I could go through that. I wish you the best of luck with your decision. Take care.
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I totally agree with april din.
2007-01-23 14:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by King of Stinkville 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋