Ok, so i asked my crush out and he said yes! heres the twist. he never calls me on his own free will, sometimes never answers my text messages. it seems like he doesnt rlly like me. how can i discover the truth? hes not treating me like his girlfriend. i no hes kinda shy and he wanted our relationship to be a secret. also, his older brother told a gossip girl in my grade and she told and most ppl no. i dont want to openly talk to him, by the way. i havent been able to sleep for days and ive been rlly depressed, so i wouldnt rlly talk. what should i do to find out the truth,?
2007-01-23 14:13:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok, let me just add this- he just doesnt want the ppl at school to know we are going out.
2007-01-23 14:54:59 · update #1
Since, he wanted to keep the situation secret, that is obviously the problem. I would occasionally contact him, but spend time with friends and allow him to initiate contact too. If he doesn't, you have the answer and you need to kindly accept his decision. He may not be ready. Give it time.
2007-01-23 14:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to, but you need to talk to him. Maybe invite him on a walk or somewhere private. If you think he's having issues with shyness, try to help him open up more. Make him laugh or talk about something funny that happened in his past. Then talk to him about this. Oh, and when you're depressed, put on some pretty music, and get some chocolate, maybe rent a nice movie. It helps. Good Luck!
2007-01-23 22:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be a little hard for you to read, but, I mean he wanted your relationship to be a secret.What does that tell you?If he really does like you he would want everyone to know.And no matter what,he must have recieved your text messages(unless he has his phone off)You can know if he likes you if he looks at you when you talk to him(in person),if he seems like he doesn't care when your talking to him, then maybe you two should break up?When a guy likes you,he doesn't act like this.He looks at you, and smiles and gets nervous.Guys like him just deserve you.This happened to me before except he asked me out. ;]
2007-01-23 22:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, he's probably into you but doesn't want his friend's to know. A guy who doesn't want to the whole world to know your dating isn't worth dating at all. Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't want to start dating out in public forget hima dn get someone better!!!!
2007-01-23 22:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by sunshineprincess032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously.....don't date until you are older than 15
2007-01-23 22:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Skeezix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋