Wow.
I cannot believe you actually asked this tonight because I am about to break off a friendship.
Well, it's more than friendship.
I am about to break up my relationship, my "marriage".
I have been thinking about this a lot and I just realized that it wasn't what I wanted. I have been unhappy for a long time, too long. And it's time to move on.
How I plan on breaking off this 'friendship' is with complete and total honesty. If I leave anything out, I fear I'll have too many regrets. I don't want to regret words that went unspoken.
I will explain exactly why I've come tot his decision and how I feel about it.
I'm scared but that's the point.
These things are never supposed to be easy because it's not just you and your emotions that are on the line.
But you just have to stand up and make a decision and do what's right for you.
You are the best judge of yourself and what's right.
However, if you're asking what it takes for me to want to break off a friendship.
It's unhappiness, discontent with them and our friendship, lack of communication, lack of truth, lack of kinship, lack of comfort.
When the comfort's gone and it's an effort just to be friendly, I know it's done.
2007-01-23 18:05:44
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answered by falzalnz 6
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Oh Geez...... that's a hard one. Well..... it is for me at least. I really hate... I mean.... really hate losing people. I can't remember ever saying to someone, "I can no longer be your friend." Oh sure...... sometimes I have to step back a little and take a breather, but the one thing I can never do, is ever let go completely.
I suppose in my head, if we've become friends, there was a real true strong reason we did. Friendship.... real friendship is not a "fly by night" thing. When you are lucky enough to find it, you grab hold. There will be ups and down for sure..... but why ever need to let go? Why ever break it off?
Ok..... let's suppose that one or the other does something to hurt the other. To betray them. I can't help but believe that that is an EFFECT of something else that two dear friends could sort out and talk about with logic and reasoning vs. just automatically saying....... the friendship is over.
Ok ..... so maybe I wear rose colored glasses. Maybe this is what is wrong with me in this world...... I wanna trust everyone. But unless someone causes me or someone I love bodily harm... (which really wouldn't happen most likely because why would I enter into a deep friendship with someone capable of such an act??)...... I will never break off a friendship. (Even if they leave me..........)
2007-01-25 02:51:34
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answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7
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Dishonesty, lack of loyalty, betrayal.
My b*tch friend was with my a*shole boyfriend. Wrong.
That ruined a friendship and a relationship.
2007-01-23 13:51:26
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answered by shortcake 4
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Stupidity.
2007-01-23 13:47:54
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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Do your different acquaintances understand she steals issues from human beings? in the event that they do no longer then you definately and your chum could desire to tell them. once you are trying this there could desire to be no explanation for them to disenchanted at you. reducing off communication with that man or woman is definitely certainly one of the terrific decision. probability is that in case you adult males attempt to confront her in any respect (advantageous or mean) approximately her stealing it extremely is going to regularly get antagonistic regardless. the significant element is which you alert your different acquaintances approximately her stealing. that style of element should not be tolerated in any respect.
2016-11-26 22:17:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Betrayal.
2007-01-23 13:48:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Lies, Back Stabbing, Dishonesty and lack of loyalty.
2007-01-23 13:54:13
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answered by catersqueen 4
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For me, it takes a while, but someone lying or mooching will do it. I will eventually just refuse to acknowledge their existence.
2007-01-23 13:47:41
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answered by Baby'sMom 7
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Probably the easiest way would to be constantly unavailable.
2007-01-23 14:03:46
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answered by Pat C 7
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Dishonesty for one.
2007-01-23 13:47:17
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answered by Mrs. Fuzzy Bottoms 7
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