There is 3 guys that like me and the dance is tommorrow. I'm afraid there going to ask me to dance or ask me out. I already said no to one guy before and he still hates me for it. How can I say no nicely, and still have them like me?
2007-01-23 13:34:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry, I'v already been asked. I'm sure we could do this next time. I don't believe any one will resent you by saying this ....
2007-01-23 13:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "I'm sorry, I can't, but thank you so much for asking me!"
If the guy hates you for it and you weren't completely rude, he's way too sensitive. Everyone has to deal with rejection at some point. Just don't be a jerk about it. Show them that you're really flattered they asked you. If they ask you why, be tactfully honest. Don't make up a lie that you think might spare their feelings. Finding out the truth will hurt a lot worse.
2007-01-23 21:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Oshun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is one of them tht u like more then the rest go with him and just tell the other guys u had a date or ha asked first or somethin but say u'll still save them a dance then ur not totally shuttin them down
2007-01-23 21:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by dani W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them all that you don't really like going with guy friends to dances. Tell him you like going with a bunch of friends so you have a good time and not just a date with some guy. Then maybe you can go with all of those guys and a few girls just as friends and have fun together.
2007-01-23 21:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mirror 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever asks you first go with them, and the tell the other guys that you already have a date, and if they get mad then thats their problem
2007-01-23 21:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by piggylover_850 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be frank thats a draw back of having one too many people who like you just choose the best for you on that ocassion
2007-01-23 21:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say yes to one guy,and say that some one asked you already
2007-01-23 21:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Vincen† 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if they hate u for ur decision then they arent worth even being friends b/c any guy should respect u no matter wut ur decision is so u can tell them to grow up and to not be so childish about things
2007-01-23 21:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by lil rizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if dnace is important then select who can dnace good but if life is important then ask ur heart where it goes and select
2007-01-23 21:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by ib_kahloon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, what a whore!
2007-01-23 21:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋