How long did it take?

Question

I know it's different from person to person, but how long have some of you been ttc after getting off the pill? And how long did it take for you to start ovulating again? My husband and I tried for four months before I decided it was time to try an ovulation test kit. that's when I realized I am not ovulating. I test every day and have been for three months now and still nothing. The doctor says it takes time ( I was on the pill for 7 years). But it's been 7 months now and if I don't ovulate in the next three months the doctors will see me. But i don't want to wait any more. I guess I am just down and out right now. I am looking for any help I can get. Thanks for reading.

Answer 1

I was on the depo shot for three years and once i stopped taking it i became pregnant in 11 months.

How to get Pregnant Faster – Top Ten Tips

1. Have sex three times a week.

Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.

3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).

Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.

5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.

Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.

7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.

8. Have enjoyable sex.

Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.

9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.

The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.

10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.

Answer 2

I was off the pill for two years before falling pregnant, and I don't know when I started ovulating because like you mine were all of the place. Definately not regular. Tell the doctor that you want to try Clomid to increase your ovulation NOW. No more waiting. Have they done all the other tests to see if your tubes are not blocked or that his sperm is good. These would be probably be more beneficial to check these things now before Clomid.
I actually had a procedure done called a Hysterosalpingogram (sp?) where they insert a catheter into your uterus and inject dye that flows through your tubes to check for blockages. Had this on 22nd December and they were able to clear a blockage with the dye. I tested positive on Saturday and am know waiting on the next 8 months to hurry up.
Good luck and fingers crossed

Answer 3

I went off the pill and decided that for around 7months I would change my diet (i became vegetarian) I started taking folate and going to the gym at least twice a week after the 7 months we started trying for a baby and it took us two months to fall pregnant. I don't know if by changing my lifestyle to be more healthy and active actually helped us to conceive, I just wanted to do everything that was in my power to be sure I was as healthy as I could be for when I did fall pregnant with my baby. (I started eating meat once I feel pregnant as I was worried I wouldn't be getting enough iron for the baby if i didn't) Don't stress to much about it the more pressure you put on yourself the harder it may become. Relax be as healthy as you can be and enjoy the process if after the 3 months you haven't conceived go and see the doctor, everyone is different and it could take you awhile to get ovulating again my suggestion is to ditch the ovulating kit for the next 3 months and just enjoy being with your husband as you don't need the extra pressure on your self. Good luck and all the best

Answer 4

I think you need to go to the doctor as soon as possible.

Why?

1. You need to know why your ovulation predictors are saying you arent ovulating. Maybe its true, maybe it false. Once you find out, you will know the next step.

2. Why waste three more months trying when you can be prescribed with medication and supplements to help your cycle get on track.

Contact your doctor as soon as possible. If your current doctor isnt helping, get a second opinion.

For the record: It takes a while to get pregnant. You're chances every month is only 20%. If you have no idea when you ovulate, then the chances are lower!

Answer 5

Do you have irregular cycles? If so, then perhaps try seeing a reproductive endocrinologist to check your hormone levels. Although it can take up to a year to conceive, if you suspect you are not ovulating then you should see a specialist sooner. Track your basal body temperature and check your cervical mucus. Try babyhopes.com for tips on doing this. Also, try taking a prenatal vitamin and a B6 vitamin of about 100mg per day. Pills deplete the body of B6 which is essential to ovulation. Finally, try vitex which is also a great herb to help balance your body after being on the pill. All the best.

Answer 6

I read on askdramy.com 50% of couples don't get pregnant until a year after they start trying.
There is also a lot of cool things to read about on this site, check it out if you'd like.
Thats a link to track your ovulation days.
http://www.askdramy.com/ovulationcalc.html

Answer 7

things happen when you aren't even trying...
go on a weekend overnite with your husband. relax, go for dinner, and take your mind off of it.

if you are testing every day, you are testing too much. it does take time. take a break from sex and testing. if you are having ovulation problems, and you know it for a fact, then testing it is just wasting money and energy. eat right, excercise, and BREATHE.

listen to your doctor. plan a special nite to just spend with your hubby, without the pressure of making a baby. it's going to happen when you least expect it.

good luck.

Answer 8

A year to 18 months! (so say some survey reports)

Answer 9

it might take a long time, your body to so used to the pill and now its not getting it anymore.

Answer 10

i was on depo for 5 years before i got off & it took me a whole year to get pregnant good luck!!!! dont worry yourself itll happen