Would it be more delighting to women to first apply fingering before the penis?

Question

I have two problems for asking this question. 1) Once I use my penis first, I sometimes get too excited and ejaculate too fast; 2) I can satisfy myself, after ejaculation (however short or long the ejaculation), but I often worry if I had already satisfied her. If the answer is YES, I should then apply it for her satisfaction.

Answer 1

You should know about female orgasm in order to see her fully satisfied, read this :- Well, there's another type of happy ending: the female orgasm. Also called "coming," climaxing, or having a "big O," an orgasm is often the pleasurable climax during sexual activity.

What is an orgasm? It's defined as the peak of sexual arousal when all the muscles that were tightened during sexual arousal relax, causing a very pleasurable feeling that may involve the whole body. During orgasm, many women's heart rates skyrocket, their breathing quickens, and their blood pressure rates increase; muscles throughout their bodies spasm, but mostly those in the vagina, uterus, anus, and pelvic floor.

Sound dangerous? It isn't. In fact, most women who have had an orgasm will tell you that it's quite nice.

To put it mildly, orgasms feel good. During orgasm, chemicals called endorphins are released into the bloodstream. They cause pleasant sensations to ripple through the body, but they also make many women feel happy, giddy, flushed, warm, or sleepy.

So, how do women have orgasms?

For starters, almost any type of sexual stimulation can lead to orgasm. A woman can have an orgasm through intercourse, oral sex, or anal sex; manual stimulation of the vulva by her partner; body rubbing ("dry humping"); or masturbation. Some women can even have orgasms just by touching their breasts or by fantasizing about sex.

For many women, the contact has to be much more direct — right on the genitals — and in a regular, rhythmic pattern. Stimulation of two major parts of the genitals can cause a woman to have an orgasm: the clitoris (which is a part of the vulva) and the vagina. A woman can have an orgasm through stimulation of just her clitoris, just her vagina, or both. But most women have orgasms through stimulation of the clitoris.

Although some researchers believe there is just one type of female orgasm, others believe that stimulation of these two parts of the genitals can cause different types of orgasm. During a clitoral orgasm, the vagina becomes longer, and it causes a pocket to be formed beneath the uterus. During a vaginal orgasm, the uterus drops lower and shortens the vagina. Stimulation of both the vagina and clitoris can cause a blended orgasm, the third type of orgasm. All these orgasms may feel different from each other.

Here's some more information about vaginal orgasms: there is a particular place inside the vagina called the G-spot (short for the Grafenberg spot, named after the researcher who "discovered" it). It's a small bunch of nerves, about the size of a quarter, that's located about an inch or two inside the vagina on the side closest to the navel. It can become extremely sensitive during sex play. And the G-spot can swell, which may make it easier to find.

Sometimes during stimulation of the G-spot, a clear fluid will spurt out of the urethra. The fluid is similar to that produced by the prostate gland in men that makes up the liquid portion of semen. Yes, it's true — about 10 percent of women can actually ejaculate!

Most women will have one orgasm, and then they'll need to take a long break — stop or reduce sex play — before the next one. But some women can have several in a row — they can have multiple orgasms.

Many women — about one out of three — have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex with a partner. Most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal penetration. So if a woman is having difficulty reaching orgasm, she may want to try clitoral stimulation during, before, or after vaginal intercourse and oral sex to have an orgasm. Keep in mind, every woman's body responds differently to various kinds of sex play. Each woman has different preferences for the ways in which she likes to be stimulated.

Most women who reach orgasm with a partner have also experienced an orgasm from masturbation. Women who have never had an orgasm may want to try to masturbate and learn what pleases them. It may take some time, but practice makes perfect.

So, now that you're an expert on orgasms, spread the word. The more women and their partners know about orgasms, the easier it will be to have one. Enjoy!

Answer 2

That makes me laugh my **** off! She's probably never climaxed in her life. A penis can give a vagina an orgasm, but it rarely causes a climax in women. You gotta stimulate the Clitoris, and that's the lil ball above the pee hole which is stimulated best by fingers and tongues. So that's how Lesbians do it. That's how smart women masturbate. And that's what men do if they're actually 'good in bed'. I think that women like that have to missing out. So i take pity in her that she's never climaxed sexually before, and that the men she's slept with don't care about her sexuality enough to help her climax... No wonder she's all about male sexuality, no ones taken any notice of hers! Edit: I read through all the other answers and i deserve to win. You all know it. There's a difference between and Orgasm and Climax. I'm the only one who even mentioned that.

Answer 3

In my book your horse is wandering in a field and the treasured cart is in the next county. It's more fulfilling to her if you to spend much more time gently holding, kissing and stroking her body. It's more important before your planned quick assault. Some ladies love to be slowly stimulated and brought to a full complete orgasm first. Stay with her for as long as she likes. Your in no race here. Did you ever think that buy giving her pleasure first actually warms yourself internally also. By this time she may assist in your return of love to her. The idea is communication before making love. Always be free to talk to each other. You may want to talk during the act but it may cause an uneasy response. Talk if your partener agrees only.

Answer 4

yes because the arousing feeling of foreplay makes stimulation feel a whole lot better. the female has build up that extra energy to where she can make the other feel as she felt satisfied!

Answer 5

U must satisfy her as well, so u can use ur fingers or toungues to give her an orgasm. after that u can insert urs and satisty urself. So both happy ;)

Answer 6

You need to finger her (when I say finger her I dont mean fukcing her with your finger. I mean stroking her clitorris with your middle finger) while licking her **** without missing a spot. You will have her screaming out of lust quicker than you can say I'm coming too

Answer 7

Um yes

Answer 8

Genltly, extremely clean hands and short nails. Show the love.

Answer 9

well sometimes... Maybe u could try some other things to do. i'm not a big fan of the fingers unless you really know where to put them.

Answer 10

Satisfy the woman completely first....then you!!!! If that means fingers, so be it.