2007-01-23 13:23:05 · 27 answers · asked by maria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i say if your happy in this new relationship...stay in it..b/c as the saying goes...once a cheater...always a cheater!...and if he did it three times...while you were married...I say you shouldn't even stay in the past...move on and enjoy it!!
2007-01-23 13:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by luvablegigglez1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I could see if he cheated once, then I may give him another chance depending on the circumstances. But twice and even a third time, no way! Assuming you're happy in your new relationship stick with it. Even if you're not happy in your new relationship you'd be better off finding someone else and starting out fresh. It's a new year. Besides, there is no way possible that he is remorseful for cheating the first time otherwise he wouldn't have done it two more times. If you keep taking him back then he will never take you seriously.
2007-01-23 14:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back to him all he will do is cheat on you again hes your ex husband for a reason. Leave him alone. He just realizes all that he has lost since you have moved on without him. Thats his problem not yours. You just be happy and stay in the relationship your in now. He shouldn't have cheated on you in the first place.
2007-01-23 13:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah... I love this. He cheated on you when you were together but sees the light now that you have someone else, right? It's game. End of story. He wants to mess up your current relationship. Don't fall for it. He's proved he's a cheater and a liar, let him live with what he did without you! You moved on, it's time he does too. He'll continue to cheat so don't think he's changed. He just wants what he already messed up...3 times!
2007-01-23 13:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated 3 times, there's a pattern sweetie. I understand that was your husband but the Bible says that adultry is grounds for cheating. Stay in your current relationship. If you aren't happy in your current relationship, don't use your exhusband as an escape route. If he cheated on you three times in the past he's bound to do it again and you deserve better than that. A man can only do to you what you allow him to do to you. You have to stay strong minded and stand your ground. Demand your respect. I'm sure you gave the man chances before you divorced him and apparently he continued to take you for granted. Don't go backwards, you deserve better than that.
2007-01-23 18:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-26 02:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take him back. Yes he will cheat again but my concern is you started a new relationship while you are still married. I don't think that was right, you should have delt with your marriage first and got a divorce b4 you started a new relationship or just made sure that what you wanted to do cause iy seems like you want to go back with your husband.
2007-01-23 13:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by tjohnson1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your ex cheated on u, and your in another relationship u would be foolish to even think of taking him back. sure u are flattered because his cheating probably hurt u alot, but he just wants back with u where it was safe because the home wrecker is probably now no longer in his life. if u take him back chances are you will be headed for yet another broken heart. your out of it now, stay out. cause if he loved u in the first place, he never would have cheated on u in the first place.
2007-01-23 13:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone. If he has cheated on you 3 times already, there is no guarantee that he wouldn't do it again. Plus like you said, you are in another relationship. It may be hard, but you have to tell him that you aren't going to go back to him. Stand firm, and follow your heart. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-23 13:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by Britney 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're already in another relationship so work on that,but it sounds like you're considering going back or else you wouldn't be asking this question. You must want to keep getting cheated on
2007-01-23 13:28:40 · answer #11 · answered by Great one 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋