Ok, I just recently found out that my ex had a baby, blah blah blah...but I'm not even sure if I'm straight. I don't really get much satisfaction with women. I mean, I'm only 15, but I've seen and done enough things to know. I don't really get much satisfaction with men, either...I mean, I'm attracted to both, but sexually, neither are quite satisfying enough. Please, though, when you answer this, don't pay attention to my age. I'm quite mature for my age. What does this mean??
2007-01-23 13:22:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Perhaps you started too young. Not like you've got to have a label to get by. Don't worry about the label. Lay off either sex until you're older,see what happens,it's not a race,it's life.Perhaps you're Asexual,meaning you really aren't interested in either,least not for sex. My mother always said if there were a third sex choice ,men would be lonely,lol. Basically,don't worry about it,whatever happens will happen,be happy,the rest will follow...
2007-01-23 13:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Back up to the greater issue that you posted elsewhere about the baby! I'll answer those issues there.
About your orientation (bi/gay/straight). You're no more mature than any other boy your age, so don't be so full of yourself. And boys your age are commonly confused because so many things (sometimes everything) turns them on. Or hardly anything turns them on. You're still developing and growing. Don't be in such a hurry to label yourself. As you get older, you'll probably get pulled more in one direction than another. Finding out that your girlfriend had your baby might be turning you off to sex with girls temporarily, since that's a lot for you to handle at your age. Just work at being a 15 year old boy (who needs a job!) for the time being and let your sex direction take care of itself.
2007-01-23 21:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are fifteen and your ex had a baby? Then you say that you are atrracted to men? The reason that you are probably not getting any satisfaction is because is because you are only fifteen and you have not lived long enough to meet different people in your life. Just because you may have been with both girls and boys or men does not make you more mature. You are just confused.
2007-01-23 21:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by CONSUELO S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you say not to pay attention to your age... Sorry this IS an age thing. You may feel like your mature and an adult but so did i when i was 15. Now i look back at it an i can't believe i thought that.
This is simple biology. You may think that mentally your fully developed so you can deal with this issues... And well maybe that's true.... But simply biology is that at 15 not all of your sexual hormones have kicked in yet.
As much as you may hate waiting but ultimately nature will answer this question for you. Just give it time.
2007-01-23 21:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by neo_t_virus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you shouldn't put a label on yourself unless you know exactly what you want. Lots of people won't label themselves. They just go with the flow.
2007-01-23 22:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Autumn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to disagree with you about your maturity. you are not old enough to cesentually agree to sex because you ARE 15, it is also why you are so confused. Honey you are jail bait still
2007-01-23 22:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, first i agree that age has nothing to do with it. maybe you need to try a guy and a girl at the same time? you know...best of both worlds
2007-01-23 21:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by freakslut2001 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sound bi to me. You need time to experience more ith guys and girls
2007-01-23 23:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you are a confused young man
2007-01-23 21:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by nickle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋